||[Apr. 24th, 2011|07:56 pm]
The Question Club
So over the long weekend, we did a bit of spring cleaning. All of the closets, yay. I found a large box of photos from the last like 19 years. There are a lot of pictures that are vacations, trips, experiences that I had with my ex-husband. I'm trying to decide what to do with them all.|
What would you do?
(If it makes any difference, I've been remarried now going on 8 years. I had no children with my first husband. We were together for 7 years total, not quite 3 married.)
I was thinking that I would keep the photos that are just me and/or scenery.
I was also considering gathering the photos of just him and/or his family (ie no couple shots or my family) and giving them to him. (I might be seeing him when he comes into town at the end of May. Nothing definite though.)
Is this super weird?
I'm okay with just throwing them away, but we had some pretty cool experiences together (hot air balloon, cross country trip, Grand Canyon, Rolling Thunder, etc.) and I feel weird throwing away his part of it.
Would you want to remember the trips you had with your exes?
I actually want to remember all of the stuff we did, though now I just consider it the stuff I did really.
What do you do with all of the old photos of your exes,etc?
I don't know. It feels weird to keep it. But it feels weird to throw it away too. Ugh.