|can we vent about crappy roommates, please? i'm about to lose my shit.
||[Apr. 2nd, 2011|03:24 pm]
The Question Club
what should i do about my bitchy roommate?|
my roommate has decided she doesn't want me using any of her dishes because some of her forks have gone missing(i don't have them) and because i left some cookies on the cookie sheets over night that were stuck to it. i didn't want to scrape them off and ruin the sheets and didn't have time to get them wet and clean up soggy cookies that night, so i left it. which she has done, too. so she even means cookware. i don't have any cookware. well, i do, but it's at my dad's because every place i've lived, the other person already had it and we've never had a kitchen big enough to hold 2-5 peoples' worth of pots and pans and baking things, including this one.
but because i sometimes(and i mean SOMETIMES, most of the time i clean up as i go or before i eat) wait a few days with dishes or pots in the sink(which i always rinse), i don't clean up enough. this is of course regardless of the fact that she leaves dishes in the sink for a week or 10 days, sometimes two weeks.
she's also gotten on my ass about spills left unattended(not big ones and she does it, too) and taking out the garbage and recycling when she never does. it's been her turn to take this stuff out for ages and she kept throwing things out of the fridge this week and last, and letting the garbage and recycling pile up and pile up and pile up until last night i came home and it smelled. so i took everything out, despite the fact that little of what was in the bins were mine and i've done them both the last three times, and we do a turns system.
i'm wondering, does she REALLY think she's taking out the garbage and that i'm not doing anything? or is she just waiting for me to do everything? because that's not gonna happen. same thing happened last year. i was the only one doing dishes and i finally got fed up with it and stopped doing them except for my own and the kitchen got nasty. then at the end of the year my roommate sent everyone a message and singled me out to everyone for having made a huge mess of the stove, which i hadn't touched since i had last cleaned it from top to bottom.
TQC I NEED A HUG.