||[Jan. 30th, 2011|11:45 pm]
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What's the best way to rid yourself of a creeper?|
Please help, TQC, he's really freaking me out :(
maybe i'm overreacting, but i'm easily frightened by imposing guys because of past issues.
i know him irl. we became friends at work (at our university) and it went from casual to him texting me constantly. like, a freakish amount. even when i told him i had to study and whatnot. he chatted me on FB all the time which was fine, and i put him on a limited list so i could stop it. but it started to get obsessive with the texting. he just doesn't stop. and i tried hinting that he was being too overbearing by making half-joking comments but they went over his head. my best guy friend thinks this guy is into me now (and apparently he was into me at a recent party too). it finally blew up this weekend when he told me "i don't care if i annoy you" which really made me feel insulted, like he didn't care about my personal space. he then was totally oblivious as to why he upset me and WOULD NOT STOP TEXTING ME until "he figured it out". he then told me i was misinterpreting things and basically made it my fault. i started to get scared when he just wouldn't stop no matter how many times i told him to leave me alone. the next day it got worse when he made a facebook status about me, but when he contacted me yet AGAIN (after i told him to leave me alone) and i called him out on it, he denied it and said it was about his ex (a lie). he contacted me today and just wouldn't stop talking no matter how much i ignored him. he's being very forceful and i'm scared. maybe i'm overreacting but i am very easily scared.
sorry for the giant wall of text!!!!
eta2: i'm appreciating all of your help, TQcers<3