||[Jan. 14th, 2011|01:39 pm]
The Question Club
Bit of a backstory: I've been a bit down lately, relationship-wise. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and he just recently moved in to my parent's house with me, which means we share a room--so we don't get a lot of privacy and we're always together. I've felt like we don't really do much anymore, relationship wise. We're together, but not doing things together, if that makes sense. We'll both be on our separate laptops next to each other, or something. Which is fine a lot of the time, since we both like our own space, but I don't feel like he has put in any effort lately to do something WITH me. Whenever I try, he wants to go to sleep or he's just not interested.|
I told him all this and he said that we'd work on doing more things as a couple and getting out more, so he planned a surprise date today. He went to stay at his best friend's house last night and told me that we'd start our date at 2 pm--which is the time he wanted me to pick him up from his friend's house at. Of course, I got my hopes up, but now, it's 1:40 pm and to get there at 2, I'd need to leave now. But, he's still asleep or something, because he hasn't answered any phone calls or texts.
Am I being completely unreasonable to get upset that he's still asleep/can't get up on time for a date that HE planned that he knew was important to me? Or should I just cut him some slack since he's hanging out with his friend?
Do any of you have to deal with things like this? >:|
I hate when people are late/tell me a time and then blow it off.