||[Jan. 2nd, 2011|03:41 am]
The Question Club
My ex and I were together for 5 years. I broke up with him in 2007 and left Los Angeles and moved to my current small town. We have remained friends, but it has been strained at times because he's crazy and has all sorts of issues, but I still love him, but I'm not in love with him. He's my friend. But he lives safely 150 miles away in LA, and I live in a small town on the Central Coast, and it's sort of my safe haven.|
So he tells me tonight that he's thinking of moving to my small town to start over. I absolutely 100% do not want this. This is my small town, and I don't want him to insert himself into my life like this, which I'm sure he would.
TQC, how would you handle this? Would you tell him outright that you don't want him to come here? Would you wait for him to actually decide to do it first or tell him preemptively? Do I have the right to tell him not to move here? What do you think?