||[Oct. 13th, 2010|12:32 pm]
The Question Club
You're on a first date. The guy seems nice and interesting enough and you have a couple things in common. Which of the following things could you overlook and would agree to a second date? Any option you leave blank you see as a 'dealbreaker' that would result in you not wanting to see him again
Receives and texts back 5 times during the meal
Insists on treating, as he picks up the bill. He pays with cash. You notice that he only leaves $2 on a $45 bill. 'More than enough. It isn't like he was performing rocket science'
Brings up his ex 3 times during dinner, each time with an angry tone and punctuates each segue with 'that bitch'
Manages to mention 'Jesus' 18 times during your meal
Farts in front of you as you both exit the car "Oh, that's because I feel comfortable around you, and plus I hate holding them in"
Admits he's vegan, and then tells you that he won't tolerate you ordering any food that 'offends' him
You're not sure but you feel he may have been flirting with the waitress/waiter. You feel it's your imagination but he did seem more animated talking to him/her
Reveals that he has a daughter, age 4. He never mentioned her before because he wasn't sure how you'd feel, but he's all she has in this world
While reaching for the breadsticks, his wrist extends past his coat sleeve. You see what looks like self-inflicted slash marks. He may be a cutter
Has a great accent, one that you find attractive. He mentions during dinner that his Green Card is expiring, then casually asks if you'd ever marry to help keep someone in the country. You both laugh but it makes you wonder
Excuses himself to go to the bathroom and comes back sniffling and seems more hyper. This happens 3 times during the meal
Currently unemployed, but looking
Brings up, out of the blue, that he hasn't gotten laid in 4 years, and then asks you if he seems desperate or needy or anything
Doesn't have a car
Insists on paying for the meal. Tries to pay for meal with food stamps. When the waiter refuses to take them, your date raises his voice and makes a scene. He finally pays the bill and then mentions something about being short on rent now