||[Sep. 21st, 2010|11:35 pm]
The Question Club
I share an apartment with a bunch of women, I have no close relationship with anyone of them. I mostly just stay in my room and use the common areas only when needed.|
There's this girl. I don't really know which one, that cries almost every night. First she talks with her family for hours and then she cries. Today she is crying full out, wailing and shit. I don't really know her, I don't fucking care why she is crying about, but I need to go out to use the common area and she is just there, soaking the place in her misery.
Should I go out, proceed to do my stuff and ignore the fuck out of her or go out and try to find out what the hell is happening, then do my stuff?
ETA: For those who care. I'm going to talk to this girl as soon as she calms down a little. I have no idea how to approach someone in her state and frankly, I don't really have an idea of how to approach someone that is upset about something, but since she is my roommate and having a good or somewhat passable relationship with her is important, I'm going to try. I'm not saying it will make a huge difference, as some people has said I am kind of an asshole, and to top it all I suck at offering advise or a shoulder to cry (it makes me feel kind of icky) but I'm going to try.
So thanks everyone!