||[Sep. 1st, 2010|10:25 pm]
The Question Club
so? i dont know where to turn too, & i was hoping to get advice. Ill give a small explanation. Not expecting anyone to feel sorry for me, just hoping maybe someone can help me or maybe if theyre is "someone" or a different community to turn too. Ok, here it goes.
i am a 22 year old living with my grandma & my uncle. Who happens to be an alcoholic. Oh well, he just stopped drinking just recently. he did drink, he got very angry. to the point he would hit me a few times. ive gotten through it. but not that he has stopped drinking, he is literally a miserable asshole who does not take care of the house. i do my very best to keep up with the cleaning, laundry, bathrooms, & for the care of my grandma & also him. cause he tends to forget to take his meds. Also, his liver is dying due to the booze. I also work part time as a cashier with low pay. looking for another job with better pay is hard. im in about 3,500$ in debt (which is my fault. not blaming anyone) so it gets harder & harder to keep everything balanced. i am in a realtionship however the way my home life is, it does affect my realtionship (at times) & also recieve no help from the rest of my family. My mother died & my father refuses to admit he has a daughter. I have older brother but he is going through a messy divorce. Agian its hard to keep everything balanced. My uncle moved all of his junk in to our spare room which is pretty big. but my uncle being lazy/sick/depressed has let it get so bad, we are now infested with mice! Mice multiply 8 times a year & have 8 or more babies per liter. I need to get all of his stuff out imeditely! however if i touch his things, he will literally hit the roof or even me. but it is a serious health issue everyone & my grandma. Someone help me. give me advice. how do i pursure to get this accomplshied without upseting my uncle. His things must go! must must must! he doesnt seem to get it but i dont know what else to do...
i do apologize for the boring/long post. if it is inappropiate, feel free to delete my post.
just need advice.
What should i do??