||[Aug. 7th, 2010|09:48 am]
The Question Club
My ex called me yesterday, but I didn't answer and he didn't leave a message (which is typical of him -- he hates leaving messages). We haven't...really spoken since we broke up in April. He's sent me a few odd e-mails, but that's it. We were together for four and a half years.|
I kind of miss him. Not romantically (I'm currently seeing a guy who is such a better romantic fit for me than my ex ever was), but I miss his friendship. Our break up was about as mutual as it gets, and we agreed to stay friends, but nothing ever really came of that.
Part of me doesn't want to call him back, but for very petty reasons. Like, I don't want to call him until I've moved out of my parents' house, get my own apartment, a car, a career, and a super hot boyfriend. It's that whole "I'm doing so much better without you" nonsense.
I also don't really know what I'd talk about. The most significant thing that's really happening in my life is I'm dating that new guy, but, you know, THAT'S not an awkward topic to bring up with your ex.
Should I call him?
Would you call if you were in this situation?