May 3rd, 2010


Job Issues

If you feel like you've been getting screwed over by your managers at your (part time, minimum wage) job and you are preparing to quit, would you be "responsible" about it and put in your two weeks, or would you basically tell them to fuck off and just go in and tell them that you're done and not coming back?
I <3 TLV

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Any tricks for making a hot and humid apartment less hot and humid? There's no AC or fans and we can't open the windows. I'm thinking of something like burning peppermint oil to deceive myself into thinking it's cooler. Would that work?
girls » barbie
  • fame

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My friend is going to Paris this summer, and offered to bring me something back. I have no idea what to ask for! Suggestions? Must be small & fit in her carryon.

What color was the carpet in your first bedroom? Your bedroom now?
Doodoo brown. Pink, much to my dismay.

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How often do you have sex?

Are you in a monogamous relationship? If so, how long have you two been together?

Bonus pts:
How often would you prefer to have sex in comparison to your partner's preference?

Just curious!
turkey dance


TCQ, what is something that you miss? I'm not talking a person, I'm talking about something from your childhood (or for us old folks, your teen years) that either isn't made anymore or you haven't had in a while.

I personally miss ice cream with little chiclets mixed in. My mom worked at a gas station when I was a kid and, when I was old enough to cross the street by myself, I used to walk to the store where she worked and get a dish of it. Great during the summer.
  • Current Mood
    mellow mellow

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What is your least favorite side-affect to having your period?
Mine is those days when I look at myself in the mirror and want to go hide under a rock. My self-esteem goes wayyyyyy down :(

Don't know or care?
What's you're favorite way to tell someone to calm down?
  • Current Music
    Stuttering - The Friday Night Boys

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I'm 22 years old and I work 60+ hours a week as a fast food manager. I work 2:30pm to 1-3:00 am. When I get home I can't fall asleep. I've tried sleeping pills but they make me feel like I didn't sleep at all. I sleep half the day on my days off and have really low energy. How do I get into a regular sleep schedule and all that when I work such long and shitty hours?

What month were you born?

  • jaysus

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If someone paid you 500 bucks would you wear assless chaps to school/work? No?

How about 1,000 bucks? Still no? You're crazy!

How much would someone have to pay you then? Your ass probably isn't even worth it anyway!
britney // not a girl

important question: "wtf is this"

i just found this picture on tumblr, and i need to know what it is/what it's from so i can determine whether i need to worry about it coming to fucking kill me or not.

i'm just gonna put the link instead of embedding it because, real or not, it's kind of a disturbing picture. warning: this is probably not SFW because it's nasty and fleshy and weird and "D:"-inducing.

seriously, wtf. is this from a movie? because if it is, i do not want to see it. the "x-ray" on the side, is that even real? the result of some kind of nuclear testing? oh my god it looks like a huge rotted face. i just don't understand. please help me i need to know whether or not i should start crying right now.
turkey dance

Tea Time

I'm considering buying my mother some Dragon Pearl Jasmin tea for Mother's Day and would love opinions:

Has anyone tried this type of tea? What did you like/dislike about it?

Is there a better advantage in taste/color/texture of the tea when using silk teabags over paper teabags?

What are your favorite types/flavors of tea?

I don't drink tea very often so I'd love to see what other people have to say.

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My google skills are failing me right now. So I turn to you.

I'm in Scotland and will be going to Spain in a few weeks. Can you buy Nytol (diphendramine) over the counter?

What are some songs that make you think of summer?

And finally, I have pink hair. How much damage would it take if I was in a swimming pool? I'm worried the chlorine will be a bit of an issue.


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Following this little problem from yesterday, I decided to go knock on their door. There was no answer. Thankfully, I didn't bake a cake or brownies to take over there because now my husband and I would be eating all of them.

So, I decided to call the police. What did they find? The house is unoccupied, not lived in for a good while though still fully furnished, and the smell was coming from a meat freezer that was no longer keeping its contents frozen because the house has no electricity. What? Who would do that? All that wasted meat.

Steak for dinner?

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i have to write an essay about how to do something.
it can be anything from making cookies to something more how to be a vampire. hahaha. or like how to be indie. 
do you guys have any good ideas? (:

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How do you take the full screen cap like they do over at the sf_drama community?

I'm trying to screencap my e txtbook because it loads horridly slow, but I have a small screen so a screenshot of the window isn't cutting it.

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1.) If you smoke weed, what's something you like to do when you're high?
-- I don't smoke anymore but I used to, and I LOVED being outside and riding in a car.

2.) i woke up with a sore throat but no other symptoms... is there anything I can do to make sure my cold doesn't get any worse or am I too late?
[Mando] Din Djarin

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Hey TQC,
Are any of you asexual?
Do you know anyone who is asexual?
I understand heterosexuality, homosexuality, pansexuality, bisexuality etc, but asexuality is something I'm still trying to wrap my head around. I know the basis of asexuality is the lack sexual attraction, thus having no interest in or having a sex drive. Contrary to popular belief, it is possible for asexuals to have relationships. From what I've learned in psychology, humans are in need for intimate physical contact (which does not necessarily pertain to anything sexual, ie kids want to be hugged and want to be close to their parents), but to what extent does this contact run? Or is everything based more on an emotional level than physical when it comes to asexual relationships?
creepy choir boy

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If you don't have a Facebook account, what is your favorite pudding?

If you do have a Facebook account,
1)How many friends do you have?
2)Who do you hide on your homepage so you don't have to look at their status updates and why?

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How soft or firm do you like your mattresses?  How big is your bed?   Do you share or sleep alone?

If you share, did you get a new bed with your partner or did you just use one of your preexistant beds?  If you got a new one together, did you agree on the type of bed? did it matter? 

My SO and I are "big fellas" apparently (according to some dude on the street) so my double bed and his twin are kinda small for us.  His is also SUPER soft and it bothers me. So we're talking about getting a new one in the future if we move in together but I really don't want a super soft one like that. 

DK/DC/sleep on the floor/hammock:  You eat too much feel sick after.  Is something wrong with you or is it just eating too much junk? 

I get sick after eating too much junk and people keep telling me I should get checked out for it..and I'm like..I just ate crap of course my body doesn't like it! :P   I'm just not used to it like other people are

DK/DC AGAIN: Do you change your hair texture? ie: straightening/curling/perms/ etc

I dont heh.

most mysterious

TQC, I think I have a fifth wisdom tooth coming in. The back of my jaw hurts, and if I feel around back there, there's a small tooth-like growth back behind my regular wisdom teeth. I haven't had my regular wisdom teeth taken out because they don't bother me, and they didn't hurt when they were coming in. Has anyone had this happen to them? I'm due for a cleaning anyway, so it's time to go see the dentist: y/n?

Related question: Do you know of any awesome dentists in the Raleigh area? I'm here for college and don't have a regular dentist down here.

DK/DC: What other meal replacements besides Slim Fast work as liquid diets (assuming I'm going to be in too much pain to eat regular food for the next few days)?
  • virile

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Do you like throwing parties? The planning, the hosting, all that? I hate it because then I can't leave when I stop having fun and then you usually have a huge mess to clean up afterward. My mom wanted to throw a graduation party for me and I said okay, only because she seemed really excited about planning the party. And it's been great because she's really enjoyed it and it's given her something fun to put her planning skills towards after have to plan her mother's funeral and such a few months ago. But, to be completely honest, I'm not terribly excited about it. I'm just not a party-throwing person.

Also, if you get an invitation to a party that is held someone other than the party-throwers house and it is addressed to you and possibly your spouse, do you assume that your children are invited as well? Actually, let me answer this one for you: they aren't.

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TQC, I'm graduating with a BA on the 21st. I've made the decision not to go to graduation. I don't have any friends here and honestly I feel like shit about the whole experience. My family keeps asking me about the graduation ceremony and I have no idea how to break it to them that I don't want to go to it and would prefer no celebration of any kind over it. I have a history of agoraphobia and all of my mental issues are untreated right now. It's making me sick to think of being in some HUGE ceremony with thousands of people I don't know and then dragged out somewhere. I don't really like talking about mental illness with my family, so what's a good way to break it to them that I just want to be left alone about graduation?
  • Current Mood
    anxious anxious
soul portrait

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Wegman's, Trader Joe's, Whole Foods, or other?

Also, I'm far too lazy to make my own hummus, so what's a really good brand to look out for, that doesn't use high fructose corn syrup? And what's your favorite flavor of hummus?

If you don't like hummus...why the hell not? It's delicious!
  • sssea

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What is your favorite breakfast?

"Egg beaters" omelet with various peppers, chives, spinach and cheese, cold very spicy salsa, a piece of sourdough toast, sparkling pink lemonade, grapefruit and strawberries and a cup of tea.
Bite me, bitch...

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Inspired by eating three doublestuff oreos:

Will you fill in the blanks?
You know I'm/someone's desperate for ________ when I/they __________.

Can't be bothered: What's some of the best drama/wank/meta/waambulance-worthy/etc stuff you've ever seen on TQC? I'm looking through tqc_drama and just... can't.
i ain't into that!

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How old were you the first time you moved in with an SO? (if you ever have, obviously.)

How long had you been together when you moved in? Are you still together? 

if you've never lived with an SO, what is the cutest dog breed?

Walking distance

How close does something have to be for you to consider it within walking distance? A friend of mine claims our apartments are within walking distance, but IMO they so aren't. They're about three miles apart. Personally, if I can't walk there in about fifteen minutes, it's driving/riding distance.

Do you walk fast?
Sam outside

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Will getting some ice cream motivate me to keep working on my study guide?

I just took a picture. What did you just do?

Whose voice on tv annoys you?

If you could redecorate one room in your house for free which one would you choose?

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my roommate told me to wake him up at 2 but that was at 8 and he didnt go to sleep til 10 ish...

so idk if im supposed to get him up or not

and he looks so peaceful sleeping

do I wake him up or wait?
what would you do ?

dk/dc: how much do you wieght?
how tall are you ?
do you know your BMI?

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I've had this headache for three days.

Why won't it go away?

Is my head going to explode?

Did a spider lay eggs in my brain, and they're slowly eating their way out?

Is it karama for thinking the baby I saw at the grocery store last week was ugly?
  • Current Music
    pierce the veil- chemical kid, mechanical bride
jumping bear


TQC, it's time to do Madlibs again! will you partake in a monday madlibs with me again?

Clearly I am not right in the head seeing as how I completely forgot to make this a question.

I'll post a comment of the blank that needs to be filled. The first/best response to the comment gets chosen.


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Hey TQC, I need a loan. I don't have any credit history. I've had my credit ran twice today, by a credit union and my personal bank and a score won't even show up. So far, I need a cosigner for everything. I don't have any negative things on it and am in good standing with my bank. Unfortunately, I don't have a cosigner. No parents, no siblings. I'm 24, live on my own and I need a vehicle because my car is about to die! I'm looking for a loan around $1400 to $1700. Is there any hope?

This is probably a long-shot but maybe someone out there has an idea.


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tqc, my boy dog started breathing weird out his mouth. it's like the noise when you are really congested, or like sucking in really hard and my dad says it could be due to heartworms. i can't take him to the vet right now unfortunately, but what the hell is wrong with my little baby? :(
venus as a boy fucking freakout

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Buffy the Vampire Slayer fans on TQC:

Favorite character?: Giles
Favorite season?: 2
Favorite villain?: Angelus or the Mayor
Worst character, should die a horrible death?: Riley

What is your favorite book?

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Who asks the best questions in TQC?

your mom


1. Is your dog acting funny today/lately?
2. If your shampoo the same brand as your conditioner?
3. Do you believe that some people are better than others? (However you wish to define that).

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I went on vacation with my boyfriend's family a year ago. One evening I was flipping channels on the tv and happened to land on Oprah. I'm not a devout Oprah fan....nor do I despise her. I'm actually fairly indifferent, but the topic that day was something interesting. My boyfriend's Grandpa got cranky and asked me if I liked her. I told him the above and he just goes, "Oprah is so liberal, she squeaks when she walks!" And also muttered something about her being the Anti-Christ.

Do you think Oprah is the Anti-Christ?

WTF does being "so liberal she squeaks when she walks" mean?

Sleep <3

"The amount of sleep required differs from person to person and depends on a number possible of factors."

How many hours of sleep do you need to feel your best? Do you usually sleep more or less than that number?

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Is this day over?
Why can't I stop being nervous whenever I have to give presentations? Do you have any tips TQC? I'm giving a presentation in less than five minutes.

[edit] Just thought I'd let you know that I completely bombed it.
  • Current Mood
    nervous nervous

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I need more energy. I looked up diets and improving energy. I don't think I can change my diet like that. D:

What vitamins should I take? Along with exercising more. And not sleeping 11 hrs a night.

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Let's say you have something to memorize. How do you go about doing this?

Do you have different methods of memorization for different things (like a monologue versus a series of numbers)?


Evil Me

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Meet Gwey.

The picture is sucky because all I have is my webcam due to my digital camera breaking.

He is an 18 month old cocker spaniel, a reddish beige colour, and has spent most of his life so far locked in a crate. :(

Anywhoozle, he is my new foster. Gwey means "idiot", and just sounds stupid IMO, so I want to change his name.

What should I name this cute little fuzzbutt?

My roommate suggested Gawain, a Knight of the Round Table.

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when you got your braces off did you get a permanent or removable retainer?

those with permanent: how long has it been in, if it still is?

anything you'd like to discuss about braces/teeth/retainers?
Cute mad kitty

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Have you ever been so annoyed for no apparent reason?
This is how I'm feeling and I don't even know why. It's driving me nuts!

If no, then when was last time you were so annoyed at something? Why?


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I am really pissed off because I just put $1.30 into the vending machine for a drink and it took my money but didn't give me a drink. There's nothing I can think of to do about it.

What's the last thing that angered you?
  • 0livia

Two Very TMI-ish and Target-Audience-Specific Questions...

1) Question for females who've had surgery:

Did your menstrual cycle get delayed/messed up after the surgery? If yes, how so? And how long was it affected?

Edit: FWIW, I had laparoscopic gallbladder removal surgery two weeks ago and I'm seven days late so far.

2) Question for males who're allergic to latex:

What symptoms have you suffered after putting on a latex condom? Feel free to venture into TMI territory — trying to diagnose the boyfriend.

Edit: He hasn't had any major symptoms like a rash or anything, just an itchy, uncomfortable feeling that makes him lose wood whenever he puts one on, so I'm trying to figure out whether I'm on the right track in thinking it's a latex allergy before we go to a doc.
Sam outside

oh facebook

 Have you had anyone post anything stupid on Facebook today?  Will you comment with what it was? 

This is what a friend of mine just posted....
Emily: All I have to say about the immigration law is this: you know that if we were in any other country without papers, they would arrest us on the spot...they wouldn't hesitate, so why should america? I believe that if you want to live here that's great, I don't have a problem with that, but please, just do it legally.

Or will you just post the last couple status updates for us to read?

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why does chatroulette just say 'connecting...' for me and not give me the option to start a 'new game' so i can chat to random people? :( it was working fine 20 minutes ago!

what time did you wake up today? how do you feel about waking up at that time?
  • Current Mood
    annoyed annoyed


do you have TIME to tell me which of these songs you know and kinda/somewhat/sorta/totally like?

in the meantime - spacehog
time is on my side - the rolling stones
the last time - the rolling stones
(night time) is the right time - ray charles
time after time - cyndi lauper
...hit me baby one more time - brit brit
time - pink floyd
time in a bottle - jim croce
wasted time - the eagles
nick of time - bonnie raitt
not enough time - INXS
one piece at a time - johnny cash
that time - regina spektor
closing time - semisonic
oh suzer, idk many of these songs, but you are TQC pollworthy!

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Do you have a Tumblr, TQC? Will you post the url?

I've been thinking about signing up for one, but IDK what to call it. I'd use it to post my random little bits of poetry, prose, photography, new music I find, etc. Suggestions?

Homemade beef stew is the best thing for a rainy day meal, y/y?

ETA and my tumblr is
jumping bear


TQC, how do you feel about ipod nanos?

I need a new music player. My current ipod (the 'classic' one that plays videos) only plays on one side of the headphones and I can't deal with it anymore (I've tried with multiple pairs of headphones, and it's definitely the ipod that's not working right). Since I don't want to spend $200, I was thinking about going for the nano with the highest amount of gb. If you have an ipod nano, will you tell me about it? I trust most TQC opinions, and I don't want to just go out and drop a bunch of money mindlessly.

Alternative question: what was something amusing that happened today?

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do you do volunteer work? are there specific organizations you tend to volunteer for/at? will you share your experiences with me and convince me that i should also do volunteer work?

bonus points for stories about habitat for humanity, since that's what i'm most interested in.

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Bon Soir, TQC.

Those cheap plastic wrap cutters are bothering me...
Anyone have techniques / other utensils to facilitate and speed up the process?

Also,  I found 4 live earwigs in my room last night.

multiple questions!

What happened to the post about what age you wanted to have kids?! Why was it bahleeted and did I miss the dramz during my stupid math review?!

Who graduated from college this week?
If you didnt graduate and are still IN college, how did you do on exams?If you did poorly, are you worried about it?

Kent State

Any KSU alumni here who do a double take at hearing the place mentioned all over media today?

It's so weird for me because I moved far away after, I'm not THAT old, I wasn't there when it happened, but it's still a very big deal on campus.

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if a stranger came up to you and said they were from the future and needed your help to save the world, how much convincing and evidence would you need before you believed them and agreed to help?

dk/dc - how long can you hold your breath?
im french

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How do you tell the difference between really bad allergies and being sick? I really can't tell.

Do you think that sometimes having sex with your partner when you're not in the mood is better for the relationship than turning them down? What do you think about this
TK and Kari

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Would you rather date someone smarter than you or dumber than you?


Would you rather date someone hotter than you or less hot than you?

less hot

Would you rather date someone weirder than you or less weird than you?

less weird

CV:did I break wind?

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A few years back I saw a story on the news about this place in China where you pay for a half hour to go into this room and you can throw breakables at the walls. I think I even heard them mention that there was one located in Las Vegas too.

What is this place called?

dk/dc: What is your favorite magazine and why?

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 My SO and I would like to move to Canada at some point in the future, but I know that it's probably much more complicated than either of us realizes. So, have you ever moved out of the country? Can you tell me about your experience? I'd really like to hear anything and everything you'd be willing to share.

What was the last nice surprise you had?
My mom got me a goldfish, completely out of the blue!

On a related note, if someone gave you a little white and orange goldfish, what would you name it?
matthew wig

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Those living with significant others:

When you moved in together, did you move because you wanted to test the waters, to discover if you can tolerate living with one another? No real long term plan, just to see if living together works, and then who knows what happens.

Or did you move in with the idea that it was the next step in your relationship before getting engaged, married, etc?

What's your opinion on moving in with a significant other? When do you think it's appropriate?

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While I was at Target last week, I picked up a wheel of Laughing Cow wedges. I went to get one right now, I was perusing the label on the back and then I noticed at the bottome it sayd "Best if purchased by: FEB 11"

It's fucking May. Am I gonna die? I've eaten half the wedges already I feel like I would have died already if I was going to, but how long is Laughing Cow cheese generally good for?

ETA: nevermind guys I read the label totally wrong. It says FEB 16 11, so it's fine. The lulz are on me.

New question- What do you like to snack on?
Driving pug

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I just found out that I failed my statistics class. I can take the class again this summer, with the same professor or I can take it in fall with a different professor.

Which should I do?

If I take the class this summer, it'll be on Thursday nights which happens to be the same night that my city throws awesome free concerts. :( They haven't released the schedule yet so I don't know if I'll be missing anyone amazing.

Will you tell me about a time that you failed a class so I don't feel completely alone and stupid? :( Or just post cute/funny pictures to make me feel better?

ETA Thanks! I decided to just suck it up and take it again this summer. I just want to get this class over with forever!!
Sue Dummy
  • yesand

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What's a movie that has someone getting their heart ripped out of their chest?

I'm writing something and I want to reference a movie that has that in it. I feel like I know at least one but I can't place it.