||[Mar. 29th, 2010|01:23 pm]
The Question Club
What would you do if you were in my situation? :|
2 weeks ago, you meet someone at lunch through mutual friends. They definitely show that they're attracted to you, but since you're with a huge group of people, the two of you don't get around to talking much. After lunch, everyone decides to get coffee at a cafe where you planned on going later in the day after running important errands. The interested person says that they'll be there for awhile anyway to read so they casually ask for your number. You leave to do errands then about 3 hours later, you go back to the cafe. As soon as you arrive, you get a text from the interested individual asking if you plan on coming around as they plan on leaving soon. You respond saying that you've just arrived. He/she finds you, but because there are no empty seats around you and because he/she said in the text that they were planning on leaving soon, you awkwardly make brief small talk then just say, "Well, it was nice meeting you."
Fast forward 1 week later:
You meet up with the mutual friend and she tells you that she thinks this person likes you because they seemed eager to talk to you. She texts him/her to come out but they're occupied, so a missed connection ensues.
Fast forward 2 weeks later:
You can't get this person off of your mind for some reason. You regret not having talked to him/her more. You're not sure when you'll see this person again because the mutual friends that brought the two of you together are friends that you only see maybe a few times a month because of busy schedules.
WHAT DO YOU DO??
a) Find a reason to text them and ask if they want to meet up at the aforementioned cafe again.
b) Just wait until you cross paths again through your mutual friends
SO most of you are saying that I just get in touch, but what would the best way to do it be? I definitely plan on texting, but how do I word it so that it's casual and not awkward? Do I just say something like, "Hey, (our friend) keeps telling me that you're an awesome person and it's too bad we didn't get to actually hang out at that cafe. I plan on being there today for awhile. You should drop by!"???