||[Oct. 22nd, 2009|10:39 pm]
The Question Club
Do you want kids?|
If not, and you found out you were pregnant, what would you do?
Do you generally like kids?
What inspired these questions, if your interested (its stressing me out a bit). Just skip if you're not:
My best friend thinks there is pretty much no good reason, ever, under any circumstances, to get an abortion. I haven't told her yet that my aversion to having kids is much, much stronger than my aversion to abortion. If I'm honest with myself, if I got pregnant, I'd have an abortion in a heartbeat--I mean, I would hate being in that situation, but I know I would do it.. She knows I'm pro-choice but I've let her assume I wouldn't get an abortion myself. She has two kids (and wants more!) and every time it comes up, its almost like she takes my being pro-choice personally! Like its a dig at her boys--which isn't the case at all, of course. I like those guys :) I can't imagine what she'd say if I told her the truth, so I'm just quiet about it. I think she'd think I was a horrible, selfish person.
I like kids, I just don't want them for myself.