||[Oct. 20th, 2009|10:45 pm]
The Question Club
Coworker situation. Boss is married with a child, the other coworker is divorced but living with her boyfriend of four years.|
You start to notice funny things happening with them. There was always the normal joking/bugging/flirting interaction that happens with almost everyone at this workplace, however, there has been a change. You notice the boss calling the coworker at work, daily for non-work related conversations. They chat for 10-15 minutes everyday, sometimes twice, just joking and having fun.
Then you notice they have started going for coffee together. The boss gets off work and leaves for coffee place, and the other coworker conveniently chooses this time to go for coffee. She comes back and you ask "Did you go for coffee with so-and-so?" reply "Yes, haha." It happened once awhile ago and you notice that it's now happening several times a week, in addition to the phone calls.
Due to the fact that you've become aware of these two things, you begin to notice how often they sneak to the back to talk, very frequently all shift. As soon as someone approaches they scatter and go back to work.
NOW, would it be wrong to assume that it looks like it could be developing into an affair? If it hasn't already? Not that I would go do anything about it, I'm just curious of I'm seeing something that isn't there. I want to know I'm not insane for thinking it haha.
It doesn't help that they are both very vocal about their relationship issues, in fact I know how long it's been since the woman last had sex with her man, SINCE SHE ANNOUNCES IT WEEKLY. Not something I ever wanted to know...
Maybe I'm a weird girl, but I would not be comfortable with my boyfriend/husband calling a woman everyday and going for coffees several times a week.