Was this a good choice, an okay choice, or a bad choice?
September 14th, 2009
Was this a good choice, an okay choice, or a bad choice?
My best friend has been dating a guy for over two years-- but it's a horrible relationship lacking trust and sober-ness. Now, he's texting me about wanting to make out and saying he's just playing around.
Do I tell my best friend? Or do I shrug it off as him being stoned?
jhflgbfhdjkbskdjhbvgnmfsd. Like, what the hell.
So now I want grilled cheese, but it's 1 am, and I need to be going to sleep.
What do I do?
ALSO: why would baking cookies make the house smell like glorious grilled cheese?
Have you ever baked cookies at 1 am?
1:23 am here.
-I'm in friends-only mode, so he couldn't just re-add me
-He likes to kinda watch over everything like Big Brother, and it creeps me out...
-I can't swear 'cause of him
-And, um, yeah.)
Edit: Lemme rephrase. How should I EXPLAIN it to him if/when he asks? He's still a part of my life, to an extent (because my mother's a fish-bulb).
How many hours of sleep do you average per night?
Where was your last trip to?
Where will your next trip be to?
I'm dropping a dress off at the dry cleaner today after work. Seeing as I have no experience at all with this sort of thing, do I have to tell them anything special (it's a satiny type and has chocolate on it), or do I just say "dry clean it"?
If so, did it work well for you?
If you don't care, how do you like your eggs?
I poured my Tim Horton's tea into my own mug and drank some.
Several minutes later, I absentmindedly assumed my mug was empty and I went to check it. I picked it up with the amount of force as you would an empty cup and ended up spilling it all over my lap since it was still half full.
It mainly went between my legs so it soaked into my chair. When I stood up, it looked like I wet myself. I had to go home and change my pants.
(My DVR timed out and Cash Cab came on, and I'm about to stab somebody.)
2. Excluding Jeopardy, what's your favorite quiz game show?
3 (is new). Are you now or have you ever been in possession of a vibrating mascara?
Why are you being so lazy today, TQC?
What is the most random thing you ever found in your pockets? Things that made you say "How the hell did THAT get in there?"
What do you always have in your pockets? Things that you feel naked without?
pics or links are cool.
Yes, this is real life.
Now my questions:
1. Will you please share your thoughts on this news?
2. Would you like to be her 23rd husband/partner?
3. Do you think the husband and her have sex??
4. How would you react if your 107 year old grandma decides to marry again?
I've got the ingredients and I've got several recipes that I'm going to be stealing bits and pieces from.
Any beef stock veterans out there that have any nuggets of wisdom to pass on?
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I have been to the following (in chronological order, repeats not included),
Singapore (only for a transfer, never left the airport)
South Korea (again only for transfer)
Thailand (was for a transfer, but I left airport to sleep at a hotel as it was almost 24 hours between arrival there and my flight out)
So, anyone else been to some interesting places. (I would be especialy interested if anyone has been to a country that is no longer extant in the form it was in when you visited)
when was the last time you acted in the moment and then regretted/felt bad about it later? what happened?
What's your favorite movie made from Stephen King's writings?
What have you eaten today?
Did it live it up the hype displayed in the infomercial?
Do you have a Ped-egg? (Or one of the drugstore brands?) Does it work? Are your feet smooth and lovely?
What about those Smooth Away pads? Do they work?
How about Bump-its? Do you have those? Are your hairstyles more glamorous and exciting now? Do you have a picture of your hair using a Bump-it?
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Where did the TV show Skins get its name?
Why do Americans call a fringe "bangs"?
EDIT: Seeing how no-one seems to know what I am talking about, Bonito flakes are those little pink flakes they put on top of Japanese food.
. I'm going to rephrase this. How would I go about finding a leak in my bike's inner tube?
[edit 2] Thanks, counterfeitfake !
What were you wrong about? (Not necessarily in relation to my last post.)
when i'm on my period, the bottoms of both of my feet hurt SO INSANELY BAD. every single month. i get cramps in my stomach, too, but it's nothing compared to how badly my feet hurt.
is this normal? i've heard of girls getting cramps in their lower backs during their period, but never feet. is there anything i can do to help it?
and If you don't care about that!
When you're sad and listen to music do you pick sad songs and wallow in your sadness or happy songs to turn that frown upside down?
Which is your least favorite fruit?
Is there anything off topic you would like to say?
What things can you do on command (without faking)?
Why is it today so many people believe Ron Paul is crazy for believing the federal government (still) has no power to create a department of education (among other things)?
Does Ron Paul's modern "craziness" make James Madison and Thomas Jefferson, both of whom said the general welfare clause does not give the government power over social welfare, crazy as well?
Congress has not unlimited powers to provide for the general welfare, but only those specifically enumerated.
Have you ever had to perform CPR on somebody? How was it?
They were there yesterday, and now they're gone. I had my phone turned off over night, but that usually doesn't affect anything.
It just came back while I was trying to call Tmobile...I'm so confused.
How many credit cards do you have?
3 major and 1 store.
Do you actively put money every paycheck in a savings account?
I do now. :( It makes me feel broke because my checking account doesn't have much money in it now.
and if you're a guy and still reading this and/or don't care, post the funniest picture you can find.
If you don't care, do you brush your tongue?
New question: What are 3 things you would change about your nose?
Anyone want to entertain me with humorous, safe for work macros?
I have a video I downloaded from youtube and I want to turn it into a livejournal user icon..is this possible? If so, how?
In Adelaide they do a night fly over about once a week. The reason is they are using infra red heat detection, looking for households that are growing marijuana hydroponically and that didn't have the sense/knowledge to insulate their shed with hay bales to avoid detection.
How do you pronounce the word "incarnate"?
What kinds of gross things does your pet do?
My bf left a cup of milk out at some point last week, and it had solidified. My doggy thought it would be a good idea to eat the solidified milk, because I guess it just smelled so delicious she couldn't resist? Ugh. I hope she doesn't get sick. :(
If you can't help me: what are you waiting for?
I'm waiting to go to class, for my package to come, and for this grocery store to call me back so I can get a job ;|
Thanks in advance!
Would you be a dildo beta tester?
Because I was late in sending them a copy of my license, they have cancelled my insurance. I have read that when getting new insurance I am obligated to tell them about any policy cancellations.
How bad is it gonna look when a new company sees why the old one was cancelled?
And is that about normal price for cover? Or is it possible to get it any cheaper?
(For the record, I do not know a thing about insurance!)
Who will be the last to answer this question?
Or, how badly damaged is your hair?
Full Story http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/northern_ireland/8254894.stm
Example, for me it's brow waxing and pedicures.
edit: i guess i can take out the word "monthly" and just say beauty expenses lol
pleaseeee and thanks!!
i just did.
is there anything you feel uncomfortable wearing, TQC?
What's your gender and age? (I'm just wondering how this influences your answer.)
I'm very cuddley. I'm always surprised when people don't like cuddling,
I was looking at this article which I read this morning in the corporeal version of The Sun, and now I'm art hungry...
Have read any weird/random art-related articles lately?
Why on earth is this happening? It's never happened anywhere else I've lived, but it's done it ever since we moved here (UK). Is it just because it's damp here? Any way to make this stop? It's really irritating to have to dig around with a knife to loosen everything up.
ETA: for what it's worth, of all the other things I have (salt, other spices and sugars, seasoning, etc.), these are the only 2 that do it.
Have you ever eaten at a Culver's?
Did you like it?
They're putting one in right down the street and I interviewed and got the job. All I know is that they sell butterburgers and frozen custard and are a fast food place.
I volunteer at an aquarium, and while feeding the another animals in his tank, the giant Pacific octopus tried to climb out. It was like...trying to catch spilt water! There were arms everywhere! I kept grabbing them and tossing them back into the tank, shouting, "NO NO NO YOU CAN'T COME OUT YOU CAN'T COME OUT! D:" My supervisor showed up after what felt like an eternity and with her help we got him back securely in the tank. It was way too crazy.
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RIP, Mr. Swayze.
all the time.
what are you doing tomorrow?
school all day :[ then seeing some friends. somewhere in between all of that i'll be finishing another paper.
can you convince me to write the multiple essays i have due?
If you listened to all your songs straight through, how long would it take you?
Edit: and how many songs is that?
What is your top played song?
Nella Fantasia - Chloe Agnew
Yeah, I'm into "vocal" music.
I'm going to a Christian university for the next two years and have made my vow to refrain from these things for the next two years, which includes the time that I turn 21 (April 2010). I'm gonna try to do it. I don't think I'll have any problem going without sex and drugs, but alcohol might be difficult. I don't have any need to get drunk, but casual stuff, you knowblahblah.
does anyone know where i could get in help with finding answers to questions similar to this:
prove the identity:
it might be a longshot, but thanks haha
**ETA: I meant, books that are classics, but I would love to read classical literature as well, so those suggestions are welcome too. :)
I have not touched a razor since yesterday morning. I got these cuts after waking up from a nap this afternoon.
TQC, where the HELL did these things come from???
I lost my brakes in the parking lot at the mall today =[
~ Ellen Goodman
Does this quote make you feel anything? What?
Do you think its deep and meaningful? Or is that just me?
It makes me feel sad. Everyone is always in such a rush, and the quote seems to hit it just right.
Which one is it in your version?
who do you suppose will go next?
Personally, I see Kevin Bacon being the next guy to buy the farm.
if you don't call often, do you feel guilty?
how do you get over it being awkward and suck it up and get into the habit of calling regularly?
i never call mine. and not really so much because i don't want to talk to them and not because we're estranged, i just never have anything to talk about :\ plus it's a little awkward to call just to say hi, especially my dad, but mostly just nothing new happens. like today it'd be like
"Oh, I went to work today. Talked to some friends. Patrick Swayze died so me and my roomie watched 'A Patrick Swayze Christmas' from Mystery Science Theater 3000. He loves Roadhouse."
You'd be super nice to include the lyrics.
What I did wasn't justified at all (think PMS rage) and despite knowing his friends for over four years we're not close because I'm generally cold.
His best friend was hosting a couples party and we promised we'd be there, anyway we got into an argument in front of his friends house and left without even going in (but his friends could all see us from the house). The argument was my fault 100%.
I have this nagging thought to call his best friend (who was the host) and apologize. I have no idea what to say but I really want to make things right! My fiance has already forgiven me. I don't want to leave it up to him to explain why I acted out because I should take responsibility.
What would be appropriate to say to him (how much info should I give him about what happened/why we argued)?
I don't even know what to say after the initial "I'm really sorry about last night"....!!
I am truly sorry for ruining the party and I regret being rude to the host and my fiance (and their friends). Every time I pick up the phone I can't go through with it (awkwardness, fear of using phones) but I feel I need too!
Have you ever had to apologize to someone you don't normally talk to?
I'm a fan of cop/csi drama stuff and British stuff.
this is my curret favorite....
sorry.. can't get it to go under a cut..on my old ass laptop....
--My 3-year-old MacBook battery lasts ~3.5 hours.
Alternatively, do you have any physical ailments at the moment? Complain here, maybe we can sympathize.
--I have a really bad headache. :( And I'm worried about my puppydog because she's not feeling well either.
ETA: So I used the above question and got this in response:
"I dunno... It would depend on the kind of relationship, I suppose, and the person. It's too abstract a concept!"
[this is what I get for liking physics people. ;)]
Are you subscribed to Shane Dawson?
I only subscribe to 2 channels. The Joker Blogs is by far my favorite, though. Then ShaneDawsonTV. Iunno, I subscribed to a lot more on my older account but wanted to keep it down.
Is a concert ticket a lame gift for a friend's 30th birthday? I know she really wants to go, and she wants to go with me but I'm not sure if it's the equivalent to getting someone a gift voucher...
Is there a way of tagging your songs in iTunes...not like ID3 tags, but like actual LJ-style tags, so you can assign multiple ones to a song?
Like if you were at the grocery store,doctors office,etc...did they ever ask for a date and vice versa?
1. Have you gotten your seasonal (as opposed to H1N1) flu shot yet? If not, are you planning on getting one this year?
2. Have you ever gotten a seasonal flu shot and felt like it gave you the flu (even if only a mild case)?
3. Finally, are you planning to get the H1N1 shot when it comes available?
My answers in the comments.
I'm considering going to visit a friend at another college for a weekend sometime. Springfield MA (which I know is atleast close to his school) is 74ish miles from here according to Google maps. According to the Peter Pan Bus website, a round trip ticket from the bus station here to Springfield would cost $73.
Is that a good deal? Is there anywhere I could look for cheaper tickets?
This is still just total speculation and I'm looking it up on a whim, but I haven't seen him in years and we were just talking about getting together.
ETA: Also, I turn 20 on Oct 6, which is a Tuesday. Besides drinking/partying (which will happen either the weekend before or after probably), how should I celebrate? I don't have any classes that day, but my friends do.
Any tips or good things to see in Marrakech?
I don't because I'm all awkward and stuff.