||[Jun. 11th, 2009|01:10 pm]
The Question Club
I need some opinions, serious and non.
I had a good friend all throughout middle school and into some high school. She became kind of a bitch towards the middle of high school and rumors were spread. A little before this time, I started distancing myself from the general cattiness of that clique and started associating with my AP friends and my bf's friends from a nearby school. She was also a part of the reason of my self conciousness with my looks (she was typical tall, thin, blond hair, blue eyes and I was the short, athletically built, nerdy sidekick) We eventually went our separate ways towards the end of high school much to my parents happiness (she could be a bit unreliable, etc) in 2004 because that sometimes happens with people.
TL;DR aside, she messaged me in 2006 I think it was, saying what's up and we caught up a little and tried to make plans to get together but communication fizzled, I was too busy with university and my full time job and technology has never really been her thing.
I was looking for her on facebook and I found her older brother who I messaged to ask how she and her family was. Should I write her a letter do you think to catch up and see whats been going on? I have nothing to lose really but I know I have a bad habit of being incredibly uncomfortable with just letting things go.
Stuff I probably should have included:
--I didn't directly write her a letter first because she always talked about New Hampshire and how she was planning to move there. I figured she moved because no one from high school has heard from her.
--Chances are high that I will be attending Med or Grad school in another country in the next 2 years so I will be gone for at least 4 years.
If you don't really care about the thing posted above, will you tell me about something someone has done nice for you that really sticks out in your mind?