Ok I need some guy advice. Who can help?
About a year and half ago I ran into a group of guys from highschool at a local pub. One of which I had always had a thing for that I never talked about - not even to my best friends.
He and I spent the entire night catching up, talking, he asked me dance (one fast song, one slow), he cut in and saved my mom from a creepy local guy, everytime I made him laugh he hugged me and I said "I never knew you were this funny". At one point in the evening while we were standing there in his group of friends he looked at me and said "I think you should kiss me right now" And I was so taken aback by it - I was a complete fucktard and giggled and HUGGED him (Still regret that by the way)
Anyway the night ended quickly when his ride left and we barely even got the chance to say goodbye.
Ive been thinking, talking and dreaming about him since. Probably driving everyone around me nuts.
My sister runs into him now and then because shes dating a friend of his. (And really this whole stupid problem could be solved if she just called me to tell me 'hey I'm at this bar- hes here, come now!" but she doesnt. She thrives on my misery really.) She recently gave him my number but didn't tell me incase he didnt call. The next time he saw her he walked up to her and said "I know I havent called Nicole. But I think about her alot, her number is sitting on my mantle - I am just too scared to call"
So heres where I need advice. I know where he lives because we were friends in school and his phone number there has always been the same.
Should I call? If I do call how do I open the convo? Something like "Hey! My sister said she saw you recently so I wanted to call and see how you were" And then hopefully it goes well and I say we should meet up for a drink or something?
Or do I just move on and let go?