What do I do to keep myself from throwing up now?
What do I do to keep myself from throwing up now?
In-store & online?
What does your favorite pair of shoes look like?
Will you post a picture of them?
And if you don't give a fuck...um...have you ever tried a neti pot? I got one today and I'm excited!
ETA: I just tried my new neti pot and it was awesome! All the pressure in my head left through my ears and I can breathe out of both nostrils now!
He's one of the regulars at the restaurant i work at, and is a regular at the bar next door. that's where I met him (i stopped for drinks with a coworker who knew him), and for a few months afterwards I'd stop in every once in awhile after a shift. He'd always put my drink on his tab, insisting on it when i started to dig around for my wallet. Free drinks is nice, and he was convincing with the "I pay for lots of my friends! it's totally fine!" line. He knew i was fresh out of college and not so wealthy with the restaurant job, and he's making enough to go out most nights of the week, not struggling to make ends meet.
After awhile I felt like he was developing a thing for me, and i wasn't into him that way. I met him at the bar one night after work and asked him to stop inviting me to lunch, not to give me anything anymore (he had tried to give me a gift card he "wasn't going to use"), and to stop offering to drive me home (i took the bus).
He's been really great about things ever since. He still comes in to the restaurant and always likes to talk to me (I work in an open kitchen), happy to monopolize my time.
lately he's been trying to get my coworkers/bosses and me in particular to come have drinks at the bar after work. Now that I live nearby and don't have the "must catch a bus" excuse, I've been telling him that I don't have money for it (I really don't), and that I feel bad letting him pay for me (I really do) even though I don't drink much.
He says that everyone puts their drinks on his tab, and he doesn't care (the owners charge him less and sometimes don't make him pay up). He wants me to come by tomorrow, since tomorrow's some sort of last hurrah (all the bartenders got fired).
I want to go (he's amusing enough that it'd be nice to get out of the house for while to listen to him chatter). But I still don't have money, and I don't want to start building up any obligation to him. I reeeeally don't want him to think I've changed my mind about dating him (because I haven't). But I feel like "stop giving me stuff" includes "i can't accept free drinks from you", so would changing my mind about drinks on him = changing my mind about going out with him?
if I go tomorrow and let him buy me a drink or two, would I be sending "maybe I DO like you like that" signals, or would that depend on the conversation?
Is it acceptable to let someone pay for your drinks when you've turned down their advances?
if I do go, should I bring a change of clothes? my restaurant stuff always smells like the deep fryer (not very pleasant) and it takes too long to go home and change.
What was the reason why you quit?
Inspired by this article about overdoing shampooing;
How often do you wash your hair?
(I have to wash my hair every single day. Otherwise...well, it's not pretty.)
Do guys generally consider letters sweet or saccharin?
What's the best thing you've ever gotten through the post?
ETA: Can you reassure me if someone is not in one of my custom friends groups and I use a friend filter in an entry, that person cannot see a post I made that doesn't include that person in the group?
What's one word or acronym you only use online and not irl.
What would be the best material for this? Non-waterproof markers? Watercolors?
If I get my dog neutered, will he sort of become a different person?
Like, will it change him in behavior, personality, activeness?
I think Andy Parsons (Mock The Week) and Russell Brand are seriously unfunny.
2 which brooklyn castmate(s) do you find most annoying & why?
3 what's the deal with chet? [eta: bewildering post from his blog (scroll up)]
4 which season(s)/castmate(s) do you most remember from when you were younger?
5 if you could choose a location
Do you have any particular desire to dress up as someone/something specific in the future? If so, who/what is it?
tell me about it
youku.com, however does not load very quickly, and just sucks.
Do you know where I can watch Frida online for free, without it taking forever?
What sign of the Zodiac are you?
What sign of the Zodiac is your significant other?
What sign of the Zodiac is your best friend?
What is your favorite music video of all time?
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what's your favorite drink?
why is it snowing?
I need 8-9 hours a night, and it has to be pretty much silent. How am I going to survive next year?
City of Angels
(ive seen them both like 13424 times but i just cant choose and i could go either way)
Does anyone actually feel any difference with the 'ribbed for her pleasure' condoms? Or with textured vibrators/etc?
For those on birth control that skip their periods regularly, how do you feel confident you're staying not-pregnant?
So, I feel like I owe someone something for this.
What should be my act of karmic thanks, TQC?
Okay, you're in prison. You have to serve 10 years. Within the 1st year you are forced into a gang, and your new gang is involved in smuggling drugs into the prison. Now, even though you are trying to keep your head down as much as possible, you still know whats going on. You know who the drug mules are and you know whos dealing. You even know which guards are dirty.
So when you've reached the one year mark, you haven't caused or been a part of any problems. Because of you're good behaviour you're short listed to go to a better prison, with a rehilbilation program. Good behaviour there could shave years off your sentence. But there's a catch. The warden knows you have information about the drug trade. He tells you if you don't give names you will spend the next 9 years in 'the hole', which 23 hours of solitude, in a depressingly tiny cell. You lose phone calls and visitation, too.
But if you give names, there is going to be a target on your head for the rest of your life. You know the gang won't let that go, theres a long list of people that they've had killed for much less then that.
What do you do?
Do you give names?
Have you seen the Terminator films? Are you planning on seeing this one?
personally, i don't think this is the best plan, but unfortunately, i don't have a say in it. honestly, do you think this is the best plan? if not, what do you think would be better?
Nelly's Hot N Here because I can't say that it's "hot in here" without thinking of that song.
ours doesn't, and I find it a mystery that others do.
2)Do you like japanese magnolias?
(just for clarification: we won't get any comments on the paper if we hand it in next week, but we won't have any marks deducted either. And my marks have been consistently really high in this class, so I feel like I don't even need the comments)
Will you motivate me to finish it on time?
I'm thinking of selling my desk.
I am looking at moving out and I was struck with the crippling fear that I might be so lazy I won't be able to function.
My school sucks. I am so mad at them. Will you tell me why your school sucks? Or, alternately, will you tell me why your school ROXX and is better than all the other schools?
Edit: I did not ask how old you were, TQC, but I am interested to know! Please continue to tell me.
will you tell me how dumb i am?
do you smoke? what do you smoke?
will you sell me some weed?
Am I outrageously presumptuous for thinking that, if you're going to require a specific four year degree (and require, within that degree, that it be a BS rather than a BA) you ought to offer more than $1.50 over minimum wage? And more than what a server is likely to make?
A gentleman's club is precisely what I suspect it is, isn't it?
What's the prettiest thing about springtime where you live?
The cherry blossoms are blooming here, which makes my life so happy
2. What do you think of a 24 year old GIRL dating a 22 year old guy? In the early 20's, is the 2-year age gap too much?
The 4,317,119 births, reported by federal researchers Wednesday, topped a record first set in 1957 at the height of the baby boom.
Is the baby boom continuing in your area?
I want to become a male-stripper.
Good idea?? y/y
What kind of jelly/jam?
Cut in triangles or rectangles?
I have a crunchy peanut butter and black berry jam sandwich on wheat cut into 4 triangles :)
I need to retire my ill-fitting bras and wanted to try the new VS BioFit bras. I've heard horror stories about VS fittings though, maybe I'm better off just grabbing a pile and trying them all on like jeans or something.
There's a Soma Boutique by the mall, but their bras aren't really what I'm looking for look wise. If I get fitted at a different store will I be able to use that size in other brands?
My period JUST came. Like...one hour before I was planning to have sex, and the day before this guy I like will be sleeping over. Talk about worst timing possible.
My question is, is there any way I can stop it at least by tomorrow night? I'm not currently on the pill, but I have some left from when I was taking them. I don't know if that would work or if it would just mess me up, though...
I find myself vacillatiing on this because I feel like the first time a guy hits me would be the last because I'll teach him what it means to hit me. But at the same time, suppose he really never does it again?
MYSTERY SOLVED. New question: What's your favorite classical piece?
Places I know of: F.Y.E., Borders, CVS, Panera Bread (tho it only seems to be for places that post jobs, and mostly for manager positions, not in my area), i'm sure there's more I can't think of at the moment...
Do you think it will settle at some point in the day?
Do you have any tricks for getting this shit to calm down?
Does your stylist tend to over-style your hair when you get it cut?
which are you looking forward to the most?
What is your method?
When/why did you start?
Where did my ghost hide it?
(Alternatively, where did I put it last night while changing into my pajamas?)
If you don't give a fuck, what is the last thing that you lost?
Also, for those of you who use an OS other than Windows at home, but still have to work with Windows at work or school or whatever, do you get frustrated/annoyed with Windows from time to time as compared to your OS?
We've been without hot water/gas since fucking Monday because the goddang gas people won't get out here and identify where the fuck the outdoor leak is. Oh oops..they won't get to us until NEXT FUCKING WEEK now. We can't cook either.
If you could live anywhere, where would you live and why?
We are going to send her the cheque as well as a card that is signed by everyone. We are going to write a note inside the card, but don't know what to say!
What should we write in the card?
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Also, what's up with those cleaning product commercials where the mom/family are animals instead of people? I've seen ants, kangaroos, frogs, etc.. Have you seen these commercials and what is their purpose?
Letting my 3 year old nephew give me smooches is...
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if you live away from home, what food do you look forward to the most when you get home?
2) What do you think of people who post their mugshots on their facebook/myspaces and brag about it? And their friends keep talking about how cool they are for getting arrested.
edit: Question two isn't about me. I found some of my old middle school/high school friends on facebook a few nights ago and this is what I found.
What color is your shirt?
What can we do this Friday evening this is fun and not super expensive?
What do you do when you go out for a night on the town?
It's your birthday and all your family and friends gather together to help celebrate it. They insist that they get to do something to you the exact number of times as your new age. You get to decide what. Your loved ones will do ________ a number of times equal to your age?
do you ever look at a really ugly person and think about how awkward they must look during sex?
Grabbing this as the perfect oppurtunity to start grooming her music tastes into the sort of young person who scours The Hype Machine for cutting edge un-signed indie acts, what sort of music should I put on it?
She likes things like Kate Nash, Ladyhawke and Florence And The Machine already, any other tips on the direction I can go with this?
Go to the gym today? Con: I'll have to drive thirty miles one way to get there. Pro: I won't have to do it tomorrow.
Or go to the gym tomorrow? Pro: I'll already be by the gym tomorrow. Con: Everyone and their mama is at the gym on Saturdays. Specifically, every caterwauling child and their mom. I hate the Y.
Has anyone ever had Night Terrors?! I had one last night and it was easily in the top 3 most terrifying moments of my life!!!
2. What is your favorite kind of energy drink?
Rockstar Juiced, the purple can.
3. What is your favorite perfume? What is your favorite cologne?
I like Paris Hilton by Paris Hilton; I like the Abercrombie cologne they spritz all over the store.
4. What sort of decorations are on your bedroom walls?
I have an Audrey Hepburn 8x10 and poster, the same of Marilyn Monroe, a Britney poster, 8x10, and 30 pg rasterbation. Need MOAR.
5. What is an acceptable time frame of writing thank you notes?
2.your favorite salad?
3.what would you like on your sandwich?
How often do you poop?
How often do you consider to be normal?
As for me, I poop like once a week. lol
If you had/have more than one journal - add them up!
I'm making brownies (OM NOM NOM). Wanna come over and eat some with me so I don't eat the whole pan?
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omg you guys please tell me you're joking when you ask me if I'm joking. I thought it was obvious.
2. Are you available
3. Would you like to make some money that night?
4. Are you mostly harmless?
5. How do you feel about squiring an eleven year old boy around town while his parents are at a wedding? You would pick an event or activity, we would pay for tickets plus other expenses plus your fee, and at some point one of you would get tired of doing whatever it is and you would bring him back to our hotel room and hang out with him until we got finished with all the wedding stuff.
Level of difficulty: No hookers, no blow. The hotel has a dress code requiring business casual or dressier. The boy looks more like 14 or 15 years old, but acts more like 8 or 9 years old. We can't afford ransom or even bail.
EDITED TO ADD:
Yoiks! It's a SATURDAY night, not Friday. Saturday April 25th.
including family members, friends, SO's, and anyone else.
Would your answer change if there would be other job opportunities within the company between now and then?
Do you hear music in your dreams?
I just had a White Ganache Bliss thing from Godiva. Ohhhmyyygoooodness.
I didn't log my information in, just clicked cancel on the pop up.
eta: omg i don't know what's happening! i'm sorry
ok this poll is useless i can't see the results either.
so uh...what shows do you like? haha
If so, how did you get started?
What books/websites/supplies would you recommend?
Can you view the poll results for this poll?
throughout my life i've only dated pure gheys out of fear that a bi girl would eventually leave and settle down with a man cause it's the "easier" path. also, a lot of the bisexual girls that i know are only into sexual things with girls and not relationships.
however, i'm finding that the percentage of good-looking femme lesbians is very slim. this means that i might have to broaden my horizons to include bisexuals. i'm not into transpeople or anything remotely masculine at ALL.
so, i guess my question is for the bisexual females of tqc.. do you plan on ultimately being with a guy at the end of the day, or are you open to whatever life brings?
winged eyeliner...hot or not?
2 days ago in one of my classes, I overheard this kid from Puerto Rico talking about what it's like there.
He then says "I think I might be related to Alex Rodriguez of the New York Yankees. Because it seems like everyone from Puerto Rico are cousins."
Why did I think this was funny? Becasue Alex Rodriguez is from the Dominican Republic.
You're having sex and your lover is hitting you at an angle that feels good but it's pushing a lot of air in. You queef. At first, it's embarrassing, but your lover laughs and doesn't stop. You queef a few more times and you both laugh and keep at it. A minute later, you realize you have to fart. Do you let it out, assuming that it'll be mistaken as a queef?
For instance, every time I'm not wearing any clothes in my house other than in the bathroom, this bit from Friends pops into my head "I'm in my kitchen...naked! I'm holding an orange- and I'm naked!"
What noises annoy you?
Did you buy anything fun recently?
Which one would you say fits you best?
a: Feet planted firmly on the earth.
b: Living in the clouds.
What is your favorite episode of South Park?
When & why did you get a livejournal account?
Did you like it?
If not, how many days a week do you exercise? Define exercise how you want.
Do you think it would make any difference if I exercised frequently BUT still continued to eat the foods I wanted (ie. cheeseburgers, chips, chocolate)?
I'm thinking it wouldn't work out so great. Thoughts?
The radio station is haunted, y/y??
What kind of ghost do you think it is?
Do you think it's attracted to the crappy music that's on right now, the free concert tickets, or the huge collection of old vinyl and CDs?
Would you like to tell some scary stories?
Oh and if you were a ghost, who or what would you haunt?
What kind of music would you request that a radio station play?
When people see you, what are they more inclined to say?
Well, yesterday I have a new co-worker that sits next to me. We were talking about our family, etc and I mentioned that we were going to England/Wales again. She asked me why, I explained again that my husband was Welsh (blank look) and she said 'but how do you communicate with him?'
The next time this happens to me should I say pictures and sign language or something completely different?
I have NO (zero) money.
I don't want to celebrate my birthday in any expensive way, obviously because I can't afford to.
1. What are some suggestions?
Also, my family keeps badgering me about what I want for my birthday and I don't really know.
I reaaaally want a G1 (the phone with T-mobile) but it equates back to money, since I can't afford to add internet to my plan, so I'm not going to ask for that, and I probably won't ever get it.
What should I ask for my birthday? They wont stop asking me.
EDIT: pictures would be fantastic
What kind of pants should I wear, then? The weather will most likely be around 40*F or higher. I'd think jeans would suffice?
* When we were visiting The House on the Rock, my Mom started to freak out because she thought it was too big and you can't get out... Out of no where she just yelled "GOD, IT SMELLS LIKE OLD PEOPLE" right while a large tour group of senior citizens were walking by.
because we couldn't get out until the end of the house--we kept running into them. it was horrible.
* I was driving through a parking lot with my parents and there was a family of little people. My mom actually started yelling "THERE'S A WHOLE FAMILY OF MIDGETS... DO YOU SEE THEM? ERIC (my little brother), LOOK, LOOK AT THEM. DO YOU THINK THAT'S THE FAMILY FROM THAT ONE SHOW?" My Brother's window was open-- so I'm sure they heard. It was horrible.
(BTW my Mom is really not an insensitive person--she just says things without thinking sometimes...)
How do you feel about watching movies alone?
What's something you can't do alone?
And something you can?
Why do many ancient stories and myths - including the Old Testament - involve ships from the Heavens?
Do you believe in aliens?
Have they been to earth?
What is it?
What genre are you using your imaginary pen-name in?
Do you ever use it? Have you used it recently‽
When was the last time a co-worker made you feel awkward?
What's your normal hair routine?
What's the most you've ever spent on a single article of clothing?
What was it? What was the occasion?
If that's confusing..
What's the funniest thing you've heard/seen/read/watched in the last five minutes?
My answers will be in a comment.
I immediately think less of people who are into astrology, obviously they are weak minded simpletons easily swayed by silly psudo-science.
What are some things that people are into that irk you?
I have a class at 8am tomorrow (need to be up by 7 at the **latest lol) and it's almost 10pm now, but the brownies won't take too long... IDK WHAT TO DO GUYS
okay, I've decided that I'm gonna make the brownies. Now my new question is, should I add some peppermint extract in with the batter, or would it be gross? I'm using the Joy of Cooking recipe here.
2)would you eat emu meat?
3)do vegans wear pearls?
does your dog like to chew their chewies, like bones, rawhide, etc. on you? my beagle is currently chewing something and using my feet as a plate.
(regardless of if they do or not)
Would you ever tell someone their SO looked like their sibling?
Damn ho, was that your booty that farted?
I hate preparing fish :(
I might just refreeze it :(
How's your night?
What does this mean?