|Oh, Monsieur TQC
||[Jan. 21st, 2009|10:28 pm]
The Question Club
Can you tell me good-ending stories about moving away from your SO that you lived with for a significant amount of time? Did it change anything about the relationship? For better, for worse? Did anyone move back IN with the SO after a time? MAKE ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MY DECISION D:
TL;DR - My boyfriend and his best friend and I all moved into an apartment together 6 months ago. [Back story: Bf and friend lived together, I moved in, 6 months later we ALL got a bigger place together]. Everything was dandy, but lately the best friend and I have been at odds on how we like to keep the apartment. It got to the point where the guy blew up in my face about it and just yelled and argued with me for an hour. Anywho, aside from the fact that I don't take that type of shit from anyone, it's just tense living there now because of the issues. My bf and I are talking about me getting my own place in the same complex, to make everything better. I'm fine about this because I'd love to have my own space to do anything I want with, and I'd be a few hundred feet from the bf. HOWEVER, I'm freaked at the idea of living with him for a year and suddenly getting my own place.
1) Kicking the friend out or asking him to leave is not an option.
2) Neither the bf or I want to be apart, but think it's for the better.
3) We have plans to move in together in the future, when the friend is out of the picture.