Sheetz. Long story.
December 13th, 2008
Sheetz. Long story.
So last spring I made the mistake of dating this guy, for two weeks, so it wasn't really dating at all. Anyway, he seemed nice at first, but he ended up being a creeper and not nice. AKA saying I had no personality and talking about how horny he was on facebook chat.
After the 'breakup' (does two weeks even deserve that term?) I came to my senses and realized how weird and creepy this guy was. Alas, he continued to talk to me via the computer. Not a ton, but every few weeks, and I would either
A) ignore him
B) not be nice to try and get him to stop talking to me
or C) try and be nice because I felt bad
Keep in mind every time he talked to me he was still being creepy, talking about how hot my friends are that he knows, saying he wished he was near me cause he was horny, AKA gross stuff that is not acceptable to say. He moved from where I live, but he would still message me being like "i'll be back in town next weekend, wanna hang out?" (with creepyness added) and I would not respond. Finally, one time when he messaged me, he said something like "I need to fulfill my desire to talk to you it is a need" or something creeperish and I was finally just like PLEASE STOP. THIS IS CREEPY. Please stop talking to me. We defriended each other on facebook (this was how he was talking to me) and it was fine. Then he tried to refriend me. I ignored. Then, today, he sent me a message that was not inherently creepy, it's just coming from someone creepy, like "I'm gonna be back in town soon, we should hang out, please talk to me, I'm really sorry, blah blah blah"
OKAY. I do not want to talk to him. I have no interest in keeping any connection open with him. I'm sorry if that's rude, but I have absolutely no desire to talk to or hang out with someone who has shown himself to be a creeper, and I thought I made myself clear.
What do I say to this? Do I just ignore it? Do I try to be nice? What do I do??
Oh, and also, is it really bitchy of me to be doing this? I like to think not since he has been very creepy, but don't know how it looks from an outsiders perspective...
Are there any songs that mention it, which ones?
I'm in Ontario NY and don't know of any-the closest thing I can think of is "The Wreck of Edmund Fitzgerald" by Gordon Lightfoot, when he sings "and further below, Lake Ontario takes in what Lake Erie can send her"
On a related note, do you enjoy Lightfoot's song?
If someone was sending you homemade cookies but they used pre-made icing to decorate said cookies, would you be upset about that and/or consider that to be cheating in the making of the cookies?
Do you know of any place online or offline that sells them?
And if you don't care for marshmallows;
Have you seen this man around?
Did weird things happen after you saw him?
I'm about to knock her down. (The slamming is preventing me from sleeping)
I'm babysitting a 17mo old girl tomorrow. How do I entertain her?
How am I expected to update a BIOS with a 3.5" floppy disk when there's not even a spot on the motherboard to plug one in?? And srsly, who even uses those anymore? When was the last time you used a 3.5" floppy drive/disk? My husband's friend offered to lend me the one in his pants.
How do you take your tea/coffee?
Favorite ice cream flavor?
2. if you could make your own buzzcocks supergroup episode, who would it consist of (for guests and team captains)?
edited for rebel_waltz:
1. plz to be naming all of your favorite episodes/moments
2. You can make an A-list Buzzcocks episode with as many team members and captains as you like, WHO DO YOU CHOOSE?
So, what would you write on a card for a client if you were a freelance translator/editor?
If you don't care... what media player do you currently use? Why?
What is a band or song that you have on your playlists/music files that you are embarrassed to admit having?
And because we are on the internet I don't think it is "rude" to ask this...so how much do you make at your job(s)?
Are you a liar?
What are your thoughts on lying?
She's a teacher and he's a house-husband. They're both really into WoW, and are geeky/nerdy. And they don't want anymore 'stuff' as they're planning to move soon.
EDIT: He used to work for Blizzard, so they have life-time accounts.
Bottom line, after I work 11am - 11pm on Jan. 2nd, should I go up to my boss and ask for a raise?
How different are you on the internet from how you are IRL? (one being not very, ten being completely different)
What can I do to stop this constant, uncomfortable lash madness?
Is it because I have long lashes? The women who cut my hair asked me if they were real, which was really confusing because I'm a a dude. I want them to stop twisting around each other.
Next time I should totally give him some cough medicine to make him sleepy, amirite? Maybe grind up some of my leftover percosets from the C-section?
Do you have to poop right now?
use words or phrases that are evocotive of how it feels. kthx.
I am watching morning news TV and supposedly Americans drove 9,000,000 miles less than they did this time last year.
How do they know this?
Or, like, they know when 'X' amount of viewers watch a certain show. HOW DO THEY GET THEIR NUMBERS?
If so, did you like it?
I have a really swollen knee, which has been getting worse each day. I went to my doctor about it on Thursday, and he said there was a lot of fluid around it and to do the usual things to stop the swelling, but if it doesn't get better to go and see him. I won't be able to go until next Tuesday.
So, what should I do? Suck it up and wait until I Tuesday to see my doctor, or just go to the hospital today?
Right now I have very limited movement of this knee and wouldn't be doing anything but sitting around anyway.
this year is the first time we're getting a tree and we're putting it up tonight! im so excited!
What songs do you want played at your funeral?
1) I'm at my grandma's and she's recovering from surgery, so I'm cooking dinner today. I want to make Hamburger Helper. She has hamburger, but no Hamburger Helper. If I make Tuna Helper with hamburger instead of tuna, will it turn out okay? The reason I'm asking is because I did the opposite once and it wasn't so great.
2) My grandmother just moved in August and the oven still confuses her. (Even though it shouldn't) She turns the oven on and after it's done pre-heating, it says End. What is she doing? When I pre-heat the oven for baking cookies, it never says that.
I like my bacon to be crunchy.
now, this never happens. i rarely drink alone and almost never bring alcohol home.
IS HE GOING TO THINK I'M AN ALCOHOLIC?
I have a feeling that my parents are giving me a laptop for Christmas. A bunch of things have led me to think this (and some of it...okay, a lot of it...might just be wishful thinking.) But I really need to stop thinking that they're going to give me the laptop, because if Christmas comes and the laptop doesn't appear, I know I'm going to be vastly disappointed and I'll need to hide it. (And I don't know how well I'll do.)
I don't have a vacuum, unfortunately.
What are pairings you started to ship before anyone else did?
For me, it's Olive and Emerson on Pushing Daisies. They would be so awesome together.
For those of you who shop at Wal-Mart/Target/similar stores, what inexpensive staples do you usually stock up on?
If you found a $100 bill on the sidewalk, what would you buy with it? You can't buy food, or anything for anyone else. You have to buy one fun thing for yourself.
How did you work it?
I feel childish for reporting her right away just because she gave me an attitude, but then I don't take getting fucked with lightly. Report her shop right away or show up in a week and give another warning?
Do you use Benefit cosmetics?
If so, do you recommend anything? I already have benetint and moon beam (both awesome).
Meaning, a shirt that will cover my ass and I can wear to school and such.
Assuming you're in college, and do not get any kind of aid, how much did your most expensive textbook cost?
Why is the "bad" ending to a game never the canon one?
What would you like to be offered?
I think I wanted to be a nurse. Then a journalist for years. Not very exciting.
1. What's the funniest use of ironic you've stumbled upon? I was checking out a Kate Nash cover of an Arctic Monkey's song and one of the commenters was pissed off because her voice didn't capture the 'irony' of it.
2. Should I cut my hair short? I've had long-ish hair since forever and I don't know if I want to take the big leap.
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I want to get into this as I think it's something I'd really love to do but I'm not sure where to start.
If you know:
What are the most basic tools and materials I will need to start book making (measurements help too)?
What are the easiest binding stitches to learn by yourself?
Can you point me to some good tutorials (not shitty ass ones I keep finding)?
Will you post a picture of a book you made?
Any other advice on the topic is appreciated.
What color/design are your sheets?
How many books do you own?
How many dvds do you own?
How many cds do you own?
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what's your favorite savory christmas?
do you get your pets christmas presents?
Ovaltine or Quick?
Freeze tag or hide&seek?
Hi-C or Kool-Aid?
Do you think they still feel love and have relationship problems?
Are they just acting really professional during human abductions?
TQC men, how many pairs of underwear do you own? What's your preferred style?
How often do you wander around in your skivvies when home alone? How often do you buy underwear? Do you enjoy shopping for it?
Do you have an underwear style preference for the sex you're attracted to?
I have 7 bras, and I'm not sure if I have more than most women or average or not enough. My favorite is a blue striped one I got at Aerie last summer. I enjoy boy shorts on myself, I have like 30 pairs of those alone, and I rotate with new ones every month or so. I'm skivvy-naked whenever possible.
I like it when guys wear boxers but a well-timed (otherwise I giggle at them) pair of briefs can work too.
A spaceship to one of Jupiters habitable moons is ready for your departure.
You have no choice on the matter, however the council has decided that you can choose one person to go with you.
Whom do you choose? Why?
A) Kraft mac n' cheese!
B) Toast with pb & banana! (I ate this for breakfast 5 of the last 6 days)
D) Kashi Autumn Wheat cereal! (I ate this for breakfast this morning)
E) 10 more York patties
Also, whatcha doin?
I'm watching a What Not To Wear marathon on TLC. YESSSS
Which one is the best?
What should I order?
what do you like on your shish kabob?
whats your favorite thing in your room?
2) Do I really have re-do the bed in the morning because it's not "perfect"?
"ha the only reason i added u is cuz i wanna creep on gavins ex girlfriend. btw what the fuck r u doing in ur default picture??
ps noelle says u look like the girl from the ring"
What would you do in response, if anything?
... Yay research~
If so, what kind of pet do you have? What are you getting for them?
If you could imitate anyone perfectly, who would you pick?
Assuming I don't think they look too bad should I go ahead and buy them and say 'fuck you' to the apparent rules of fashion?
Are you a military brat? From which country? Which branch was/were your parent(s) in?
Did you move around much? (Do you have any stories pertaining to this?)
Yes, other countries have military, but does yours have a military culture that the US has? That is whole cities are build around branches. The military have their own housing, base schools for those outside the US, support groups and such.
How much money is in your purse/wallet?
ETA: It popped up on StumbleUpon and almost gave me a panic attack.
I'm watching Christmas Evil right now, about a boy who catches his mom having sex with his Santa suite-clad father and grows up to be obsessed with Old Saint Nick, in a creeptastic way.
Were you a planned or unplanned birth?
How many email addresses do you have?
Have any of you had success on match.com? How long did it take you to find someone?
How many hours do you tend to be awake before you start to feel sleepy?
do you live at home or on campus?
do you feel less a part of college life if you dont live in a dorm? does it feel like a continuation of high school?
for those of you who have never gone to college:
does it bother you that I dont use capital letters?
I'm a little retarded at boys.
Should I give him this card first, before his gifts? Or after he opens all of his other gifts?
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1) Is anyone watching the movie currently airing on Lifetime?
2) If you are, do you think the neighbor is Santa? I have a weird feeling he is.
Edit: For number two, the movie is over and he totally is Santa. I called it so early.
When will people stop prophesying the end of the world?
Bonus question: I snapped the little counter-lever thingy on my (front-loader) washing machine's door. Now I can't open the door :( Any idea how to jimmy it open so I can have clothes to wear next week?
1)suggest some music i can listen to that will cheer me up
2)post/say anything happy or funny so i can laugh
...will you tell us about the last time you were [painfully] embarrassed?
What is for dinner?
Coke or Pepsi?
I've always had a dry scalp so I never took notice to the severe itching and flaking on my head until my hair starting coming out in chunks, at first I thought it had to do with stress but after this going on for over 2 months I went to the doctors yesterday. He told me i have psoriasis and that was what was causing my hair to fall out, he also told me a dermatologist could treat it better than him so he told me to buy T-gel shampoo (which i did) and make an appointment( which isn't until 01/30 =[) So what I wanted to know is if there is anything else i can do to make this stop, if you have had it how did your doctor treat it?
~i just bought 8 bottles of gold peak sweetened tea from the 99 cent store for 59 cents a bottle! they're usually $2 at my school/$1.50 at ralph's! wooo!
Guys, would you date/marry a girl 2 years older than you, or would you prefer someone your age or younger?
Whats the most hurtful thing a friend (or ex friend) has done to you/said to you?
...what do I wear (I am female)???
Edit: Is it more of a casual thing or something you should sorta dress up for?
How much do you weigh?
How tall are you?
Could you recommend a laptop for me to buy? I'm going to be traveling, so I'm looking for something lightweight (around 3 lb) and durable. I'm not looking too much at the sub-notebooks, I'm hoping for something with an optical drive.
And if you're not interested in that, what will you be having for dinner tonight?
b)When you moved out of your parents' house, did your parents keep your room the way it was, or convert it into a computer room/home gym/guest room/whatever?
-Mine changed my room into the computer room. When I come home I have to sleep on an air matress and I always get woken up early in the morning by someone using the computer.
c) What are some silly things that you keep in your wallet/purse?
-I have a Digimon playing card and my license is covered up by an Autopia license from Disneyland because I don't like my picture.
Be as brutally honest as possible.
What do you think this means? Should I write a book about it which will then turn into a major motion picture?
What's your job/school situation?
My friends who dorm have "jobs" on campus where they can tell their boss they have a test and not have to come in. . A friend that I go to school with has parents who insisted she work, yet her sister who goes away to school doesn't have to.
How do you make a pancake? Do you ever push down on it with the spatula? How many times do you flip a pancake?
What should my friend and I do with our lives? No math please.
what should i get?
edit: i went with some jammies and lingerie, lip balm, and some archer farm treats. thanks!
If you're not creative, do you ever wish that you were?
par exemple Twilight
Our bedroom is infested with mice. They are crapping and peeing all over my books and I would kill them with my bare hands... But I can't even kill them without my bare hands.
We have tried live traps and, now, 2 kids of rat poison (tucked way where the pets can't get them). I have found empty bags of the poison so I know they ate it. But I am still hearing them and finding their turds!
What baffles me is that there is NO source of food in our bedroom. NONE. We have no mice in our kitchen! But in the bedroom where there's nothing to eat, they're everywhere!
What are they living off of? And how do I get rid of them?? :(
(ps - my cat is useless, I already tried getting him to be a mouser. no luck.)
ETA: I now see how many mouse posts there have been in the last few days/weeks. Alas! And, as for the "they die in your walls and smell" stuff, it actually doesn't really happen in Santa Fe, in my experience. It's so dry here that they just kinda mummify and that's the end of it.
I'm still curious about what they could possibly be living off of. Other than the piles of dead mice in my walls. But wouldn't the dead mice be full of poison and thus poison the cannibals?
yes, I don't know what to do with myself.
2)what are you holding off from doing?
gluing stuff together.
3)what immature thoughts are you having?
do we have to have steak every sunday?
what's your favorite show?
I do, I just started since I moved in with my friend and she always has it on. I used to hate it, but I've been converted. Really love the Venture Bros., but omfg I love the Warden from Superjail.
Should I do something productive tonight (like clean) or continue to lay around and play on the internet/watch tv?
If you're part of the TQC Christmas exchange, have you bought your gift yet?
What's your favorite color skittle? Do you eat them by color or just shove them all in your mouth at once? Have you ever secretly wished one of those skittle commercials would come true?
Can you pull off the messy/tousled hair look?
Would you rather win $500,000 lump sum or 1,000,000 over 30 years?
You're at a party, having a decent time, when someone spills a large glass of whiskey on you. You clean up as best you can, but you reek of alcohol. You're sober (or close to it) when you leave, and are driving home. It's late and there's no one on the road. Suddenly, around a dark bend, a homeless man steps off the curb, in the path of your car. You mow him down. You stop the car and look in your rear view mirror. He's not moving. A lot of things cross your mind. No one saw you and you stink of booze and you'll be assumed to have been under the influence. What do you do?
Yes, I really want to be a Dallas Cowboys' cheerleader. :(
Went to a bar or club alone?
If not, would you do it? Why or why not?
Just want to hear input! I'm staying with family members in another city and I don't have any friends here. A friend's advice is to just go alone!
This is one of my sister's assignments for sophomore English; I think it's a cool idea. She's going to make Cindy Loo Who the villian behind it all, because she wants all the presents (including a Hannah Whotana bra and panty set) for herself. And after the heist, Cindy slips the Grinch a "whoofie" and holds him captive, kind of like what happens in Hard Candy.
And, speaking of Hard Candy: in the movie, Ellen Page's character calls the male character a word that means something similar to pedophile and he answers with "I'm not a pedophile!" What did she call him, TQC? My sis thinks it may have started with a "c" but she's not sure.
**plz make sure you're signed in, playing with 6 "heysmilepretty's guest"s gets old :P
I got bored. :P
What are your plans for tomorrow?
I am taking my puppy to the dog park to run around! HOORAY
What other things/people/etc should be remembered as being the best or worst of '08?
What category should awards shows have that doesn't exist yet?
What other books by Christopher Moore are your favorites?
Are there any authors like Christopher Moore that you recommend?
Did you ever gamely try a foodstuff that is traditionally odd that you thought you'd hate, but ended up liking?
What common food would you be content not to eat ever again?