|Breakup teal deer
||[Jun. 17th, 2008|06:22 pm]
The Question Club
So, I really feel like I need to break up with this guy I'm dating (it still feels weird to call him my boyfriend even though we've been "official" for like a month). Basically, I'm not attracted to him and never really was, his argumentative nature irritates the shit out of me, and I just don't have time to devote to a relationship right now if I'm not really into it. I am on break now and want nothing more than to see my friends and have some "me" time, and when rotations start again I'll need all the free time I have to deal with reading, taking care of my dog, and taking care of myself. |
However, I suck at breaking up with people. I always feel guilty and awkward, and I haven't done it in so long that I'm really nervous about what I'm going to say.
So, tqc, my question for you is: what should I say/how should I say it? Do you have any advice on how to make it as painless as possible? Keep in mind that he is more into me than I am into him, and he is a very argumentative, often abrasive person.