||[Feb. 7th, 2008|01:59 pm]
The Question Club
is it bad to wish bad things on people who have really hurt you?|
ETA: i mean, i want revenge, but i'm not really the one who can do it; it'd have to be someone else.
do you think that the time that you've known/dated/whatevered a person determines how much you can (potentially) care about them?
for example, if you date someone for a week and you date someone else for two weeks, do you think that it's impossible for you to care about the first person more, even though you didn't date them as long?
okay, this is the explanation behind my questions. i usually don't like to do this because i don't want biased answers, but here it goes.
i dated a girl OFFICIALLY for a little over a month. the month before that, we were doing all the datey things, and basically, were dating for about two and a half months, in total (unofficial and offical). she cheated on me with some straight, asexual girl from like, 20 hours away and says that it's impossible for me to be heart broken because "it wasn't like we were in a three year long relationship. there's no way that you could be broken hearted." that makes NO SENSE to me, whatsoever.
also, i am trying to be her friend, but i am so angry at her because she's hurt me so much. i really want this new girl to break her heart, and that'd be my revenge. i know i can't do that to her, personally, but i sort of wish it on her. : /