||[Dec. 21st, 2007|02:53 pm]
The Question Club
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So a few years ago (about 2003) some drama went down with me and my best friend.
It was revealed to me that she had been sleeping with my boyfriend while he was still with me. So we broke up and she promised me that what happened was just a fling, she didn't take it seriously, and out of respect for me, she wouldn't actually date him.
He started begging me to take him back and me being an utter moron, I let him lead me on. Except what while he's doing this, he's having another fling with her, and eventually they ended up together, despite both of them saying they had too much respect for me to let that happen.
After that I pretty much cut them both out of my life. I haven't spoken to or heard from either of them since then, except to laugh at the fact that when she moved away to go to Uni, it was found out that she had slept with pretty much most of the guys in her residence halls and my ex was rather angry at having being cheated on.
Yesterday, my sister calls me and mentions that this ex friend is going out clubbing with my sister and her friends tomorrow night, and if I don't mind her being there, would I like to come? I tell her that I really don't mind the fact that she's there and holding a grudge for four years over silly teenage drama is sometthing I like to think I'm above doing. For some reason, my sister proceeded to tell me that if I DID hold a grudge still, I could feel somewhat vindicated because now she's gotten really fat. Like 300lbs+ fat. I still don't really care.
Why am I being expected to still hold a grudge from almost five years ago?
Why the hell did my sister tell me she's fat now if I already told her that I don't really hold any grudge or hatred towards her any more?
If this had happened to you, would you feel vindicated with this piece of news?
I know my little sister loves me, we're pretty close and I know she's saying this just to make me feel better. But we're both adults now (I'm 21 and she's 20) and I'd like to think that when I say I don't care any more that she'd actually believe me. Or am I just reading far too much into this and should just laugh at karma biting this girl in the ass?