|I feel bad
||[Nov. 12th, 2007|02:38 pm]
The Question Club
Okay, me and one of my bestfriends were hanging out yesterday, and we decided to hang out a little with my roommate while my other friend was waiting on their taxi. my bestfriend is not a fan of homosexuality, as far as it comes to men on men action. i am a very accepting and open person as far as sexuality is concerned. my roommate is gay. yesterday night things got a little heated, my roommate knows that this bestfriend of mine doesn't appreciate homosexuality, he doesn't understand it, and doesn't want to, but is cool with my roommate as long as they do not have conversations about the particular topic. when we were sitting downstairs talking, he pulls out his laptop, and shows me and the bestfriend a simulated scene of sex between two men, and then starts talking about coming out for the first time, and how he thinks a guy from work is very attractive. my bestfriend asks for him to not show the video that he is showing on his laptop, a heated debate insues, with my roommate calling my bestfriend obonoxious, which in turn makes my bestfriend really pissed, they kind of toss words at each other, not the nicest of words, and it ends with my roommate saying "you know you can just leave", and my bestfriend saying "well you should just carry your ass upstairs". i was completely enraged by this, and let my bestfriend know that it wasn't okay to just be rude to my roommate, and that he could just ignore him, later that night my bestfriend apologizes to my roommate. |
i feel incredibly guilty about all of it
Is a simple apology okay? i feel like i just really offended my roommate, my bestfriend and roommate said some really uncalled for things, and even though i talked about it with both of them, i fear that everyone is going to hate each other
I already feel like such an outsider as far as my roommates go, should i apologize again, or just let it go?
Do you feel as if the roommate was trying to provoke something out of my bestfriend?
ETA: thank you for all that responed, i think i now have a much clearer perspective on the whole situation, i think i just have major confrontation/ guilt issues and i just want everyone to get along with everyone perfectly, very unrealistic, and i'm close to that time of the month for me, i get extra sensitive and emotional...i know tmi