|What would you do?
||[Aug. 18th, 2007|12:38 am]
The Question Club
I met a guy in my dorm, he's nice, takes me out many times, shows me around, etc. However, there is a girl he is close to in the dorm: always accompanies her out, cooks and eats all meals with her. One night me and him go out, get drunk and hook up. He tells me that he was with the other girl for three years, was engaged, then broke up three months ago. He tells me to keep what happened between us a secret, because it would hurt her.
Now, other than the occasional hello, he ignores me and avoids me. This is a small dorm and it's totally awkward. I want to ask him what his deal is but there's a significant language barrier (studying abroad). I can also never get him alone to talk to him. What should I do?
EDIT: I'm not interested in being with him romantically, I just don't want it to be awkward. The dorm is small, about 15-20 people on one floor, so not seeing/talking to each other would be next to impossible.