|non-monogamous UP sex dilemma
||[Aug. 8th, 2007|06:42 pm]
The Question Club
my boyfriend just sent me this email on his way out to his vacation;
I need to make an uncomfortable confession.
I had unprotected intercourse with her at one point.
I feel like crap and I'm sorry I didn't tell you sooner.
To clarify, i'm peeved that he had UP sex, not that he had sex with girlie. the actual action of sex is fine, but the lack of responsibility irks me.
i haven't responded yet, and i'm super sick, so an email is more likely than a phone call, but i'll do what i gotta do.
again, i don't care much if you wouldnt put yourself in my non-monogamous situation, rather, i'm curious how you'd deal with this new information in my position. also, if you don't care about my situation, suck it.. i'm asking to gauge my reaction in relation to others'.
(x-posted for range of results)
EDIT: i'm not sure when the UP sex occurred with him and girlie, but we've had UP sex relatively recently. the *when* of his sexing is certainly a large factor here, and i'm certainly going to inquire further.