||[Jul. 26th, 2007|08:23 pm]
The Question Club
There's this kid that's IMing me about this paper he's trying to write and he needs help with it. Now normally, I'd help him all I could, or at least some, if it was something I knew about. But this paper he's writing is about masturbating.|
I might not even mind discussing that with him but he's always trying to ask me out and he used to ask me for sexy pictures so I'm not very comfortable with talking to him about my girl parts. Specially 'cos I don't trust him and part of me doesn't believe he really has to write this essay.
But nobody else wants to talk to him about it, and he's not allowed to use the internet as a source, and the library didn't have any books about how girls masturbate. And he doesn't know anything about it, I suspect because he doesn't have much success with girls (and I can see why.)
Every time I tell him "no, I'm sorry, I'm not going to help you" he says, "no, no, I don't mean to sound like I'm pressing you or anything, I'm just worried about my paper, and I do understand your limits, but if you want to answer some questions for me that would be great."
(This kid is so persistent. When I was young and stupid--I still am--he asked me out. I said no. He kept doing it, continuously for three hours. I caved. I figured he'd take me to a movie or something, and being asked out meant I wasn't necessarily committed to him. As soon as I said yes, I realized it was a mistake because he called me his girlfriend, which meant I was committed to him. So I broke up with him two days later. He wanted a girlfriend so badly. I was the third girl he asked out in two weeks.)
I finally logged off that screen name. Luckily he only knows the one I don't use much.
So what would you do? Would you be comfortable talking to him about that stuff? Since he's creepy and awkward, would you block him? Or would you put him off and lie to him to avoid hurting his feelings too much (like I did)? Do you think it's true about the paper, or is he just being awful to me?
EDIT: So if he continues to bring it up I AM NEVER TALKING TO HIM AGAIN.