||[Jul. 22nd, 2007|10:45 pm]
The Question Club
You find out one day that your SO used to be a porn star. It was before you guys dated, it was just one film, though s/he ended up sleeping with 5 people in that movie. Either 5 thin-waisted, big-boobed women or 5 guys with enormous wieners. Your SO never told you cause, well, s/he thought you wouldn't understand, and it's all in the past. Would this affect your relationship at all?
Nope. It's all in the past and doesn't affect the present. I'm just curious what my SO spent the money on
I'd be horribly jealous. This information would start a fight
I'd think it was funny. I'd have a new pet name for my SO
I'd be more hurt that my SO never told me this before. This is big. What else is my SO hiding from me?
It'd be hot. It would be such a turn on. It's make our relationship stronger
If s/he was a porn star, how come s/he sucks in bed? I call bullshit
I don't feel as bad about all the whoring I did before we met now
Not only would I be jealous, but there would be issues about adequacy or sexual inferiority about myself
You find out that your SO has a love child. Before you two knew each other, there was a previous relationship that resulted in a kid. That kid was put up for adoption, but there is a little version of your SO walking around somewhere. How do you feel about this?
Indifferent. What does this have to do with me?
Terribly hurt that my SO had a child with someone else
It'd be kind of funny. I'd tease my SO about this and it would no doubt spawn a new pet name
As long as the kid isn't in our lives, it don't bother me none. My SO could have a gaggle of kiddies that were given away, as long as they never show up on our doorstop
It would change our relationship. I couldn't see them the same way anymore
One night while talking late into the night with your SO, you start sharing all manner of secrets, when your SO admits that, when s/he had first gotten his/her driver's license, they had hit a homeless person with the car. It was the wee hours,and your SO simply loaded up the body, drove it somewhere really isolated, and buried the bum in a field/desert. It was never found. Your SO never forgot the incident, but doesn't sound entirely sad it happened. How do you feel about this confession?
This was some time ago, so the crime was never solved. I'm glad that my SO got away with it
I leave an anomamous call to the cops later, reporting where the body is located, but giving no info on who dunnit
Same answer as above, except I rat out my SO
My SO did the right thing. Nothing good could come from bringing the police into this
I really can't see my SO the same way again. This kind of information will damage the relationship
"As long as you haven't run over and buried any more people, I'm willing to write the experience off as a live-and-learn"
This confession allows me to reveal my own accidental death/shallow grave story. It'll feel good to get it off my chest!