||[May. 12th, 2007|09:21 am]
The Question Club
k so. yesterday i had three friends over from school to watch 28 days later before we went to go see 28 weeks later in the theaters that night. we're in the middle of the movie and my mom tells me i have a call from my other friend christina. i pick up and she follows with "you have to come with me to banquet tonight, are you coming....?" [my mom told her i had friends over before she called] so i say "since when am i going? i thought i only had to go Wednesday [i went with her to her chorus concert 2 days earlier]
i was under the impression that she had to do the concert i went to twice, not that they were two separate events.
i tell her i can't go because i have people over who live 30 mins away from me and i can't just leave
she just goes on with "are you kidding me? are you KIDDING me?"
according to her, she told me i was going 9856934856 times.
maybe i just have bad memory but honestly i had NO IDEA i was going anywhere with her on friday, i would never ever invite people over if i knew i was going somewhere else with a friend.
i kinda got snippy with her when she went off and hung up. followed by 239854 calls after which i didn't pick up because i knew it would just be screaming.
the only reason i went snippy is, we've been friends for 9 years and she's always been like an older sister to me [the mean kind] who could make you feel like shit the best she could and i've kinda grown some balls lately and been able to tell her off when she's having a hissy fit. when she's happy she's great. any other time she's KJBFKJDSFB GODZILLAAAAAA. eh.
i don't think i should have been snippy.. blech. but anyways
she also left a message telling me "oh, just to let you know, you have to pay back my mother the 25$ she just wasted for your ticket [1. i had no idea i was being payed for. 2. her mother always makes me pay her back for things like this, even if it's $5, so i would have payed her anyways] and i thought i'd let you know THANKS for not coming to my senior banquet because 1/2 my speech was dedicated to YOU. thanks. click.
i have two questions.
1. should i feel guilty...? i'm going to apologize either way.. via letter in the mailbox. not face to face. she's the kinda person who will take your apology, shove it down your throat and make everything 4956546 times worse. but should i feel guilty. i know i should feel bad because of the situation, but i had NO IDEA i was going. i didn't do this on purpose.
2. what should i really say when i apologize besides what i basically have told you? minus the not explaining what happened in real life parts..
ps. i just thought i'd add, she isn't as bad as she sounds in this entry as she is in real life. she's a really good friend and i love her to death. but when she gets mad or something, she goes insane. that's one thing i have to deal with. she has major anger problems whether she wants to admit it or not. she's the kind of person who would take a measly little pick towards her [like someone making a cute joke or something making fun of her. like most friends and family do] and GO THE FUCK OFF after. she is a nice person though..