||[May. 6th, 2007|01:33 pm]
The Question Club
I live in England. I met a wonderful Australian guy whilst he was travelling Europe. We had a 6 week, short but very intense time together. He stayed with me, I took him to meet my family and then we flew to Paris. |
It was always the plan that I'd go and see him in my uni summer holidays when he was back in Aus.. I booked tickets for mid June-mid July and i'm definitely going. I'll be staying with him, and we'll be together for the whole month.
We keep in contact via email, webcam & phone and i can't wait to see him... I suppose we both know that in all honesty this will probably be the last time we'll see eachother...he's just SO far away.
In the last month i've sort of met someone else... nothing major has happened with him but I know it could, and I want it to. We've spent a lot of time alone together, but i'm putting off picking up the hint that he wants anything more to happen because I know that when I go to Australia i'll be with another guy...
I think something really great could come out of the second guy, but i need to somehow put him on hold for a couple of months until I get Australia out of my system. How would it sound if I came out with...
"Sure, we can go out but just so you know i'm heading off to Australia to sleep with another guy for a month.. then i'll come back to you, okay?"
Not great right...I don't want to lose him. I think there's a little bit of having my cake and eating it too going on here.
Any thoughts? words of advice?
Have you ever been in a situation similar, or where you liked/wanted to be with two people at the same time?