||[Jan. 15th, 2007|11:12 am]
The Question Club
Well.. I had moved to a new city almost 8 months ago and the first person I befriended is still my very good friend. We're friends with benefits, as well.. but recently it seems like it has gotten more than that. We slept together over the summer many times, but then I started to date someone and we stopped. The guy dumped me, my friend was there to console me, and then we started fooling around again. I dated another guy for a month, we stopped. We started again this weekend when I stopped dating the 2nd guy.... He has always treated me no less than like a princess, his nickname for me is Princess, actually... And this weekend I hung out with him and his son, who was staying over that night. It was different than usual because we hung out in sweats and jammies, instead of going to the bars, and we played with his son, and just teased and roughhoused and etc. Totally laid back, very relaxed.|
Then he mentioned that he was going to the Dominican in April. I commented about an old roommie going for a wedding once and it was wonderful and made me want to go. So he asked me to go with him...
It just feels like the dynamic of our relationship has changed a little bit. He has tons of other female friends he could ask to go with him, and tons of guy friends, too.. but he asked me. And lately I've been having strong feelings for him. But he's my best friend in this city and I don't want to ruin that.
Should I tell him how I feel and/or ask how he feels or just go with it? or..? Thanks for the comments in advance!