|Should I call him?
||[Feb. 1st, 2006|08:13 am]
The Question Club
I knew a guy in high school - gorgeous, funny, as cliched as it sounds, the perfect guy (for me at least). We hooked up once, but it wasn't the right time then. We stayed friends, things weren't akward afterwards or anything, it just wasn't right.|
He moved away a while ago, and we lost touch. But I still think of him, especially when my dating life is lame (as it usually is). I just looked at my matches on Yahoo personals, and he's on it! He just moved back to town, and is single & looking! Being the super spy I am, I found his phone number, too! (OK, I looked in the book - but I still have it!)
So my question is this: should I call him, instead of waiting for a response online? My idea is something like this-
(First off, I intend on calling during the day - he'll be at work, then I can leave a message, which he can ignore if he's not interested) "Hi, this is *my name here*. I was goofing around online today, and I found your yahoo ad. I figured, since I have inside information, like your name & all, that I'd beat the rest of the pack and get to you directly, so I looked up your number. Anyway, if you'd like to get together for a drink or a movie or something, give me a call. Its been too long."
Any suggestions for not sounding like an insane stalker? HELP ME!!! "Its been too long" has a double meaning, if you get my drift, and I need to remedy that ASAP!!
(On the plus side, I'm not insane. I thought I saw him a couple of weeks ago while driving, but my best friend told me I was nuts, because he moved away, and it was just wishful thinking)