||[Oct. 7th, 2005|12:33 am]
The Question Club
So my birthday is on Saturday, and I'm having a whole bunch of friends over for the weekend. My best friend is coming over with his girlfriend, who is also one of my close friends. My boyfriend is coming, along with a couple other friends. They are all staying in my (very small, studio) apartment for two days. I jokingly told my best friend's girlfriend, "There will be no sex in the apartment while we're all staying together!" And she replied, "Well, the way this week has gone, I can't make any promises." |
Basically, in the conversation that ensued, we determined that while she and my best friend are both sleeping in my bed (since my boyfriend and I don't like sleeping together in a loft due to his incessant fidgeting while he sleeps), they won't have sex. But she says they probably will make out and grope and everything while they are staying in my apartment. And I'm like, dude, ok, not cool. It makes me uncomfortable not because it's my best friend, but because it's a sexual act happening in my presence. I don't mind hearing about it, and I really don't mind knowing that my best friend has sex with his girlfriend at all, but I don't want to have to see it or hear it happening in my bed, in my apartment, with a whole bunch of our friends there.
Am I being unreasonable to ask them not to make out/grope each other this weekend while they are at my place? Or is that a totally off request, and I should just deal with it?