|so let's suppose...
||[Aug. 7th, 2005|05:35 pm]
The Question Club
Okay, here's a scenario for you to consider:
Let's say you were married, and then divorced. You were married around five, almost six years, and have been divorced a few months. You divorced because you were too different, but still get along enough to be friends. (personally, I don't see how this is possible, but well, whatever.) No kids...
So on what planet is it okay for your ex to invite you on vacation with her? AND her parents, no less?
He said he didn't think he'd go, but still...that's really crazy, isn't it?
And wouldn't you take it as a convluded sign that she's trying to get him back in the sack? She also fell asleep in his bed for HOURS when he kindly let her use his shower when her bathroom was being worked on.
ETA: my side of this is that this is also MY friend, and we've been more than friends for months now, but I think it's because of HER that he won't step over the line. I'm about to get tough.
ETA the second: I called him, we discussed it. Gah, I hate having irrational feelings.
And no, it's not this whole "oh, I'm worried he'll cheat!" I just didn't know if we had any level of commitment. We do. Phew. Crisis over.