||[Jul. 28th, 2005|11:30 am]
The Question Club
girl meets boy
girl finds out boy has a female best friend
boy and female best friend used to date
girl goes out with boy on a few dates, has a good time
each time boy and girl are out the female best friend calls for one reason or another
boy always runs when female best friend calls (not runs from date, but after and/or before)
what do you do?
edit: follow up.
told the boy that although i have no issues with the fact that he is best friends with a female, i find it a little odd that he runs to her all the time, and that i don't really understand the friendship they have .. he defended her and finally i said "i am uncomfortable dating someone who is somebody else's bitch" (blunt and rude, i know), and i sorta questioned why she can't do things for herself. he completely freaked out, said it wasn't my place to judge her (it's not, i agree, but that's not the point here) and said he couldn't talk to me again .. i said "you're fucking kidding me", i couldn't belive this dude was so messed.
i am a very blunt person, and even though i don't think i should have said anything yet, i knew that i coudn't have stuck around and gotten into an actual relationship with this dude. you should have seen it, it was like from a movie the way those two carried on, she calls him twice a day and they see each other almost everyday. it was ridiculous. he at the end said that i need to get my cds from him although "he wasn't going to forgive me" (dude, ive known you for 2 weeks, not even, easy there).. i said i wasn't in need of the cds and he could dispose of them. god.
i am just asking the question because i found this the most ridiculous situation ever. what do you think?