||[Jul. 26th, 2005|01:21 pm]
The Question Club
My boyfriend and I are having a debate. We're not getting married anytime soon or anything, but he says that the groom picks the guys, and the bride picks the girls. I've always said my brother Chris will be in my wedding, and Craig is saying that no, he won't be. That's the way it works, case closed. Craig says that he wouldn't have my brother in the wedding because he's not close to Chris. |
I've said that a wedding is our 2 lives coming together, and I can have my brother in the wedding. Likewise, if Craig had a sister I'd have her in the wedding party if that's what he wanted. I personally think Craig's just going by the 1920's standard for weddings, and he needs to jump into the current times.
So, the question, is it true that I can't have my brother in the wedding since Craig picks the ushers/groomsmen/whatever they're called?