||[Nov. 24th, 2004|08:31 pm]
The Question Club
i know this isnt exactly a relationship advice area, but i've read the responces of the regulars here, and i belive i can trust their words.
thank god neither of the people involved reads this community.
i have an interesting problem, my roommate's girlfriend has had a "thing" for me since FAR before they hooked up.
we used to flirt alot in the past, be neither of us made an advance at the other.
my roommate knew this.
about a week ago, she came down to my room and crawled in bed with me, and began to snuggle.
partly just wanting to enjoy the moment, and partly in shock, i just layed there.
she then took a very "active" role, and begain to do things (i was completly passive)
i'll spare you all the details, but alot of clothing was removed, and things happened.
my roommate is kinda f'd up in the head, (paranoia and general mental problems) plus he's been burned in the past by a friend stealing his girlfriend.
needless to say, i assumed it was NOT a good idea to go shouting about it to him.
i find out(from her) last night that she told him like 2 days later.
and that "he was ok with it, as long as she still loved him"
what should i do now?
should i bring it up with him?
how do you bring up a topic like this?
what if she didnt really tell him, and i'm the first to tell him?