||[Mar. 28th, 2004|05:53 pm]
The Question Club
i give up on people really easily. if i call them at least every weekend for a few weekends in a row, and they can never hang out, i assume they don't wanna hang out with me and i quit calling them. i do this because i don't want to be annoying or creepy (as i have been labeled as such in the past, and there is nothing in the world worse than being called creepy). i am cursed with being as extroverted as i am socially inept, and thus prone to periods of reclusion due to the mentality of "if they want to hang out, they'll contact me."|
occasionally, i call someone and they ask why i quit calling them. and then i feel like an ass. but i feel bad calling someone all the time if they can never hang out.
so anyway, when someone stops calling/trying to hang out, how do you feel? do you feel rejected? do you notice? do you care? do you wonder? or did you not want to hang out with them in the first place?
do you know anyone who's like this?
yeah i know i have issues...