|i'm kind of embarassed to ask, but i really need some advice, so..
||[Jul. 23rd, 2003|05:32 pm]
The Question Club
How do you get over someone? The peson in question.. I know he's no good for me, and as a bit of a player probably not interested anymore himself, but I keep getting these thoughts. I haven't approached him about it because I want to give him space and not crowd him out, and it's not like we have a close friendship or anything. It's purely a one night stand deal that won't go away. Mental pictures of his smile, or an endless train of 'what if?' thoughts haunt me. Wanting to be with him, having these thoughts, seems masochistic. No matter how much I tell myself that I don't need him, or I don't want him, or it's pointless to dwell, I can't seem to get over him. I think it's kind of like with chocolate. You tell yourself "no, i don't need that chocolate, it'll make me fat/pimply/whatever".. but you still crave the sodding chocolate. Anyone have any good tips?|