||[Nov. 24th, 2002|09:17 pm]
The Question Club
Ok. Here's the situation. I have a friend who used to be a boyfriend approx. 7 1/2 years ago. He has since been married and has a child. I have been married for a year and a half (happily) and have no children. He and I dated for approximately 2 months, it ended poorly and we didn't speak for a long time. Recently we started up an e-mail correspondence and he's been telling me about the problems in his marriage. (More than just "she doesn't understand me", the problem is that she has discovered she's gay!)
Anyway, he is obviously having a difficult time with this. Last night he was over to talk and he asked me if I'd like to go out dancing with him sometime. I said I don't think that would be a good idea... and I don't think my husband would like that. (as a side note, my husband does not dance. I used to go out dancing all the time before we dated)
Final thing to say is that *yes* my husband is aware that we've been talking and he knows the situation that my friend is in. So here's the poll:
What would you do?
Think that would be inappropriate and say no
Think that *might* be inappropriate, but say yes