My friend's dad died late last week in a road accident. I'm going to visit her tomorrow. We're both 20, and it's really the first time I've ever had to face the bereavement of a friend's parent. I don't know what I could possibly say or do to help. She's having to make all the arrangements, her mother is not coping at all, understandably. Has anyone here ever lost a parent? Was there anything that helped at all, anything anyone could do for you? All the things I can think of seem like they'd be insulting her grief. How can I even presume to be able to help her with something this large?