1. Do you think that if a person is large but confident, she can be deemed beautiful?
(#1 does not relate to #2, I am not confident, and sometimes I have a tendency to slouch, as if to hide my non-existant chest.)
2. (girls can answer this too but it's directed especially at the guys!)
Guys, do you look at girls who are not good looking? I might be overly sensitive or just very pathetic, but I realise that some guys would look at me when I walk past, and I can't tell they're looking because I'm ugly, or because I have some food on my cheek, or something like that. I am overweight, not good looking, no hot bod, hot butt, nice hair. In fact, I'm a plain jane. But guys look at me too. Maybe they're looking at me in the 'oh my so ugly' kind of way? Big sigh.