So in March, I am taking my kids on a vacation to Disneyland. My husband wants to bring along his fiance to interact with the kids and spend time with us.
I don't want to spend time with her. At all. I am okay with him taking off with the kids for part of a day, with his fiance so they can get to know her. He wants me there to get to know her.
Would you want to spend the day with your stb-ex and his fiance and your kids?
He doesn't understand my not wanting to get to know someone who will be a primary caregiver of the kids when they have visitations with him. (He has never had them for visitation, but thinks that will change in the future) I said, I can see spending an hour with her, but not a day.