2. What do you consider to be an 'acceptable' amount of body hair and on what body parts?
3. How do you get rid of your unwanted body hair?
I used to be really crazy about waxing my arms, shaving my legs and trying to be as hair free as possible. Now I'm more relaxed about it. I'm dark haired and I also have thick hair that grows very quickly, so it shows up. I tweeze my eyebrows nearly everyday and get my upper lip waxed regularly. I wax my arms semi-regularly. My legs are normally shaved, my armpits are almost always shaved. I got teased a lot as a kid about having a lot of hair, so I can be kind of paranoid about it. As for my nether regions, I keep it trimmed and groomed, but hairless cooches weird me out (I'm not 7 years old).
Hairy other people don't bother me--it's your decision whether or not to remove your hair. Hairless men freak me out for some reason. Most of my Significant Others have been kinda hairy to really hair and I never had a problem with it. I know it's weird, but I find hairy men to be manly and hot. As long as you're clean and smell good, I don't mind body hair. As for facial hair: mustaches weird me out, but beards don't.