How do you feel about your SO reading/not reading your journal?
I have two and neither of them read my journal with any regularity. My husband reads it more often than my girlfriend (yet has no journal of his own). My girlfriend has a journal of her own that she never updates. Sometimes I feel unimportant that they don't read me, but on the other hand, I usually have a safe place to gripe about them if I'm mad. :-)
Although I would LOVE it if they both kept journals and updated them so I'd know more about what they're feeling. They're both Pisces and getting information like that out of them is like pulling teeth.