I'm running into a lot of people from my past (through facebook) and some are people who have really screwed me over in the past, but after talking with and catching up with them, they seem genuine and nice .. I'm just having trouble trusting them because I know what they've done in the past, and I know what they're capable of, and I can't imagine them just completely changing.
What would you do if you found out someone you're interested in is a big beleiver in abstinence? Would you start a relationship with someone who doesn't want to have sex until they are married? What are your thoughts on abstinence in general?