I recently had my first sexual experience with a guy I knew for about a week, and basically I drank some vodka and then got into his bed and fooled around with him but didn't let him take off my pants or even go under my bra. He asked me to be his g/f and I thought about it and the time constraints and how I'd be "required" to talk to him every day and said "maybe I don't have time." Because, in all honesty, if I were to be his g/f, I would just use him for sex but because I'm waiting for marriage, I would use him for...nothing. And it's not like I really connect with him, but even if I did, I could just go talk to my friends instead of him. You see?
What's the farthest you've gone on a first date/hang out with someone, and how serious did you two get afterwards?
I hear all these stories about guys using girls for one-night stands and then the girl is considered a whore, but then I also hear about these couples who have sex the first night and then end up being really close.
I want to kiss this guy again, but I think he's a little hurt by me rejecting him. And plus, I only want to fool around, not actually do it. He's kind of a player with no game, but he's cute.