haunted (haunteddown) wrote in thequestionclub,
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Funnerals and family

My cousin is set to die in the next 6 months from kidney failure. She is on my mothers side which I don't talk to at all except for my step grandmother and that is in cards at birthdays and mother's day. I have never been close to her or her family and I don't know if I could pick her out of a crowd. Problem is: I don't know if I should go to the funneral or not. I don't think I have exchanged more than a sentance or two with her, well, ever and I don't like her parents or most of my mother's side of the family. She also lives 6 hours away which means she willbe buried 6 hours away which isn't a lot but enough so we would have to drive and spend the night.
What would you do in my position? Do you think I am being selfish by not wanting to go? Do you think I should because she is technically part of my family
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