In the movie I'm watching, there is a character who is fiercely independent. She refuses to let men hold doors open for her, etc. I've known people like this and I think they come off as rude and on the bitchy side. What do you think of people (not just women) who refuse to let someone hold a door open for them or do anything for them because they think it's a sign of weakness? Does your opinion change depending on if it is a woman or a man?