I have very thick,wavy,and puffy hair that is unmanagable and a pain in my ass like you wouldnt believe. I cant do anything with it. Usually just put it up in a bun or something if I dont blow dry it straight. However, I dont like that look and wanna try curling it but I don't know how to use a curling iron. I have one but when I try to use it the clamp ends up heating my hair and doesnt curl. Does anyone have tips on how to curl my hair???? Or how to manage it?? I'd like to wear it down at some point in my life if thats possible..shit.