1. Would you advertise your kinks in meatspace (e.g., with a key fob that looks like a leather spanking paddle)?
2. If you had a profile on a dating site, would you mention your kinkiness?
3. If you answered 'no' to the above, how soon after meeting someone would you bring it up?
4. If you are a kinky person, would you be weirded out by someone who's completely up front about it?